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Archived questions from: 20 January, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Where to Now? And how to stop this jealousy too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

20 January 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I wrote in a few months ago about an argument between me and my boyfriend. I had gone on his phone as he had been hiding it everytime he got a message which made me doubt what he was upto. I know I shouldn't have but I needed to know as it was eating away at me. I found out he ... (528 words)

Am I over-reacting when my Boyfriend ignores boundaries and behaves disrespectfully towards me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

20 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 28 year old female, been with my boyfriend for a long time (over 10 years), although in the beginning we were off and on. Roughly 6-7 years ago, we were broken up and he dated a girl for a few months. He still said he wanted me back and after talking, I agreed to get ... (1069 words)

Met A Guy I Really Like, But Not Good Enough For A Relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

20 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I joined a sports club today, and met a guy I really, really liked, even after talking to him once. We have a lot in common and he's really nice and flirted with me a bit. I will be seeing him twice a week there. I was really nervous around him though, because I'm not ... (153 words)

Brother-in-law is a pedophile and sister hid it from the family resulting in chaos

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 644 days ago

20 January 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - My sister lives 6 hours away and we use to be close as children. When ever she is back in our home town 2x a year her and her husband and me and my betrothed hung out for a couple of hours and got dinner etc. My fiancé got to liking my sister and husband. My sister's husband ... (381 words)

I have a boyfriend but have been talking online with this girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3376 days ago

20 January 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Im so confused about what to do. I have a boyfriend of nearly two years who I love, but I'm also talking to this girl online that I really like. I've known I'm bisexual for a while but I have never dated a girl or done anything sexual with a girl. But I really want to, and ... (69 words)

She has changed but I love her and don't want to throw 2 years down the drainpipe!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

20 January 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Here goes, I’ve been with her for 2 years, everything was great, she started uni 6 months into our relationship (i’ve always worked full time), her starting uni never bothered us, we worked through it, didn’t argue and we were good… In September she said that she wanted to be... (661 words)

Am I doing anything wrong? I like a married man and he likes me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

20 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - please advise:- I like a married man, he likes me too. we share intimacy like few kisses/smooches /holding hands etc but not physically involved beyond that extent. we like each others company he is a top level guy in my office and I've been employed in an entry level positi... (262 words)

How many stay with their first love and is it better for me to experience someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3376 days ago

20 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there :) Thank you for sharing your thoughts if you decide to answer. Since the new year has started, many couples around me broke up or there were people that started a new relationship. Many of my classmates are around the age of 22 or older and I am the only ... (324 words)

How often is too often? And if the only sexual activitiy I have ever had has been masterbation, alone, then am I still a virgin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3376 days ago

20 January 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone im 17 and im a girl and i feel that i have a huge problem. I masturbate a lot especially when i feel horny. I use my fingers and a vibrator and i orgasm most of the time. I am a virgin but i believe in marriage then sex with my partner but im finding it hard ... (201 words)

My boyfriend is ruining our relationship with video games. How do I get him to stop?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

20 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 7months, and we are in a long distance relationship. We see each other for 2 weeks a month, so we get to see each other as much as we can. Things were going fine, but he is very addicted to video games, and he's 27 years old. When we first met, ... (391 words)

Wedding gift-giving advice needed for the best man and his girlfriend! What's the etiquette?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

20 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering if anyone can offer some advise over wedding gift-giving protocol? My boyfriend and I have a wedding to go to in a month. It is the marriage of my boyfriend's best friend and he is his best man. I've known his friend for quite a few years and I would say we g... (406 words)

Any advice on how to patiently wait out the engagement period and not rush marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

20 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year now, and we are talking very seriously about marriage (AKA he has picked out a ring and I'm waiting patiently for the one year mark to come for a possible proposal). I am beginning my second semester of a two year MS ... (192 words)

His best friend has told me very upsetting things about his sleeping with other women, including her! What do I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

20 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I always knew my boyfriend was hiding something from me regarding his best friend but I was never sure about what it was. I do have trust issues due to be hurt in the past but it was something different this time. It was like I could see it with my own eyes but I couldn't make ... (468 words)

We are like a couple, but she says she just sees me as a friend, I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

20 January 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi sorry to sound stupid but I'm useless with women ! I met a girl on pof back in October she kind of knew me through my works and living near me, we got chatting and seemed to be gettying on really well however she did turn round to me and said I wasn't her type and just ... (187 words)

My boyfriend is struggling with depression and it's putting a strain on our relationship!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

20 January 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. For about a week and a half my boyfriend has been experiencing depression. He's lost all motivation to do anything, has lost all interest in things that he was originally interested in and says he's just been "in a rutt" doing everything ... (438 words)

I have feelings for my best friend's man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3376 days ago

20 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I hate to admit this, but I have developed feelings for a good friend's boyfriend. I dont know why, but I have, and what makes it worse is I am engaged to a lovely man, who I still really fancy. Even though I would never go there, because I couldnt hurt my friend or my partner, ... (148 words)

Help dealing with mentally ill manipulative abusive in-laws

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

20 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, I have been married for over 7 years to a wonderful man. Sadly his parents are mentally ill and won't get help. We have distanced ourselves from them by moving across the country. They are emotionally abusive and snarky smart mouths. a 3 ys back they did ... (267 words)

Why do girls always come and tell me how attractive some guy is?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

20 January 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - About half of my friends are females. I tend to get along with them more I guess because most guys I meet are more immature. Still, I'm a guy not a girl. Why is it that all my female friends feel the need to tell me about how attractive some other guys is. Whether it's som... (152 words)

How can I get my father to give him a second chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

20 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am a mature senior in high school who has experienced a lot at this point in my life. I dated a boy who was a couple years older than me for over two years. He was my high school sweetheart and we were madly in love. He was a part of my family, very close with my paren... (392 words)

I'm caught between two best friends. What to do???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

20 January 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - **Don't just assume because of my age that I'm not worth your time, because I could really use the help please** God I can't believe Im actually going through with this..,well, yes I know I'm young but everyone knows that people always date when they're young, but ... (458 words)

Would a memorial tattoo put off a future partner?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

20 January 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex mutually agreed that it wasn't working as a couple because we had been friends for over a decade before dating and that felt more like us than the time we'd spent trying to be a couple. After breaking up, we found out she was pregnant and we were happy to raise our ... (233 words)