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writes:Ok so almost every morning before my guy goes to work I'll catch him looking on his phone and then get out of bed. Either going to the bathroom or in the kitchen. After awhile he'll either shower or stay gone for some while. I know he's masterbating while he thinks I'm asleep and it frustrates me and even worse when I find the evidence. He even takes his phone in the shower with him. I'm not sure what he's looking at on his phone wether it's porn or pictures and when I ask him about it he denies it and gets upset. I hate the fact that he's doing it instead of doing it with me or why he's doing it anyway?? What is going on??!?
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reader, Need to know +, writes (15 November 2014):
Need to know is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell he really has no idea I know that he's doing it except for the one time I brought it up and he denied that it was happening. I haven't snooped through his phone to find what he's looking at but I'm not sure if I would even want to??
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (15 November 2014):
 I'm imagining this guy's phone with dried-up smegma all over it.... Yeeech!!!! (Be glad that he takes the phone in the shower to rinse it off, before he brings it out and lays it on the kitchen table!!!)
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (15 November 2014):
 Some couples like to look at porn together but for your boyfriend it is a private activity. I would say he is not being discreet if you know all about it. There is no place for denial if he leaves evidence everywhere.
If I were you I would torture this guy by mimicking everything he does and making sure he sees that I am looking at monster cocks. Just kidding. I would confront him about my needs and that every time he looks at porn I am the one who's deprived of that need. I would understand that porn only takes seconds and it doesn't involve in stress and performance anxiety but I would let him know while I don't censor porn, don't do it so obvious in my face.
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