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Archived questions from: 11 May, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Social media has me questioning my life and place in the world!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3637 days ago

11 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - A lot of my peers (most of them,actually) have grown up with social media. I was always late with it, getting myspace and facebook years after my friends had theirs. I have lost touch after high school with many people cause I'm not very active online (instagram, facebook, ... (331 words)

I can't connect emotionally.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3637 days ago

11 May 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I have started dating again after a small break and here I am stumbling again on my biggest problem: creating an emotional connection. Emotional connection is necessary in order to escalate things. Yet, I am unable to push things further. Don't get me wrong, ... (645 words)

How can I be so romantic it leaves her breathless?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3636 days ago

11 May 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a few different questions one is for all the girls on here. My gf said that none of her exs have ever been romantic and honestly I have never really given a rats ass alit a girl before. I'm ashamed to say that at 29 this is the first time I have been in a relation... (126 words)

I feel disgusted he saved an inappropriate picture of his daughter's friend!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 3575 days ago

11 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi There, Agh, I am actually a embarrassed to write about this. I couldn't even bring myself to talk to any of my friend about it in the last 3 days. I have this habit of going through my boyfriend's email, phone, etc. It's a bad habit, I know it invasive and a violation... (407 words)

I am struggling to see a future with my boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3635 days ago

11 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my boyfriend more than anything but am struggling to see a future for us because of how useless he is with money. We earn roughly the same - take home about £1500 a month. I own a small house and manage to pay all my bills on my own and still manage to have a half dece... (274 words)

Unrequited love! I don't know how to deal with it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

11 May 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - im in love with my best friend, who doesn't love me back. i have to spend all day every day with him and it's so painful. what do i do?... (30 words)

Best friend gossiping to ex behind my back

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3636 days ago

11 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey Everyone, I broke down few weeks ago because I found out that my bestfriend of 10 years has been contacting with my ex. I didn't know how she got his number (maybe facebook) but she's been contacting and telling information about me behind my back. As for my ex, I don... (210 words)

Indecisive and secretive on-off boyfriend issues

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3635 days ago

11 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy at uni and we've basically been dating on and off. We're currently not dating but we got really close and speak non-stop. However, we argued a lot and I even cut him off for a good month as when we do argue he's REALLY mean and insulting. When we are together... (321 words)

Ijust want to feel like a princess for one day!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3638 days ago

11 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there I ask for help, because it is now bothering me for a long time. Please don't condemn me or tell me that I am ungrateful / behaving like a princess / looking to much of holywood films. I got this answers a lot and it doesn't help. Maybe I am ungrateful in th... (821 words)

He said he fancies me, and he called me sexy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3637 days ago

11 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Would you be offended by someone calling you sexy, if you hardly knew them ?. Ok, I don't know what is going on with this guy I know. He is a friend of another guy who also said that he likes me. This guy sent me a text message saying that he is starting a new job soon,... (175 words)

What does proposing mean for a man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3637 days ago

11 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi agony uncles What does a proposal mean to you? What is it like to propose to your longtime girlfriend, if she was waiting for it for a long time and sent A LOT of hints? Do you want to surprise her with the question even she is really expecting it or do you think it ... (144 words)

He stares at me, does he fancy me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3638 days ago

11 May 2014 (F) - I am in my 40's and I have started noticing this guy around a lot more recently and seems to look at me. He bought himself a more 'stand out' car recently so I know when he is in the car park. I know that he likes to get his morning coffee from the supermarket at school drop ... (326 words)

How to handle rude neighbours?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3636 days ago

11 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Cupid family! I've got this question that I have to get off my chest. I live in this neighbourhood with my family(sister, brother and mum), and apparently It's like most of the people dislike us. We mind our own business but every other day while passing near our house they ... (82 words)

He threatens to break up because we haven't seen each other for a few days

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3637 days ago

11 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is mad because we haven't seen each other for a few days, what should I do ?. I last saw him on Wednesday. It was his fault that we didn't see each other on Thursday,and I was busy on Friday and Saturday. He sent me a text today, saying that I will never see hi... (138 words)

Do I need help for watching porn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3637 days ago

11 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a young female and i have been in a faithful relationahip with my bf for almost 4 years. Sex was great for the first 2 years. Hes gained weight and sex was painful for me. We havent had sex for months. I look at lesbian porn i!dont like all the kissing and ect just the ... (122 words)

How do I comfort my grieving boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3637 days ago

11 May 2014 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend just lost his father to cancer (with whom he had a strained relationship) and his way of dealing with it is ignoring his feelings and brushing off the topic. I see that he is shutting himself down emotionally - he's short tempered with me and tells me to stop... (91 words)

Boyfriend is moving in - how do we work out finances?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3637 days ago

11 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of five years will be moving in to my home soon. I am excited but also a little anxious. He would prefer i sell my home, or rent it out and get a place together. I have a mortgage which i manage on my own and can't afford to rent it out and rent elsewhere (this is ... (296 words)

My boyfriend is an amazing dad to three kids!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3638 days ago

11 May 2014 (?) age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I need some help. I'm a 26 year old woman who has recently just become serious with my boyfriend of 6 months. He's 35 and has 3 children from a previous relationship (aged 9, 5 and 3) although he hasn't been with their Mum since his last daughter was born. I comple... (200 words)

Am I breaking the "girl code" ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3615 days ago

11 May 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Okay let me start from the beggining. When I was in year 8 I became friends with this boy and we talked but it's wasn't on a best friend level. In year 9 we started getting closer and I introduced one of my close friends to him, and like 5 months later they broke up. Throughout ... (414 words)

I am dating the boss's daughter and he is not happy about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3638 days ago

11 May 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf and I have been dating for a few months now and her father is also my boss. When I first started working he was always going on about his "little girl" and I literally thought she was a 13 yr old girl not a 20 year old college student. I met her through friends and as ... (420 words)

I need to gain some clarity about what this relationship would mean!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3637 days ago

11 May 2014 (F)

age - I met a man online several years ago. He and I got along until he told me that a woman from his past wanted to come back in his life. At the time I had just stopped dating someone else and was trying to see what was going on with us. So he end up marrying someone else and I ... (256 words)

I don't want to appear cold and uncaring!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3638 days ago

11 May 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Im in need of advice about plans with a friend. I have a friend, we met 6 months ago, and get along well but I don't know her that well yet, (not as much as my other friends.) I haven't seen her in 5 wks and next Friday we planned to go to see a theatre show( we both RE... (490 words)