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Archived questions from: 31 May, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Co-worker found out I have a crush on him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

31 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have a little problem. For about 6/7 months, I have had a crush on a co-worker, and now he knows. So it was my birthday today, and we were all at work. I was given a card from all my co-workers and waited until the end of the day to read it. I was sitting by myself w... (258 words)

How do I prepare myself for the breakup? And should we stay friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

31 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - For the past year and 7 months, I've been involved with this guy. Even though it's been a rough year, I've gotten really attached to him- I lost my virginity to him and everything. However it's become more and more apparent he isn't "ready" or willing to commit. And it's... (350 words)

2 guys and I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3511 days ago

31 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone well for the last 6 months 2 guys have been interested in me. Both of them are my friends. I find them both attractive. The first one has done so much for me, he is always there when i ask him for help, he has helped me more times than i can count, is so sw... (566 words)

How do I confront my boyfriend about pictures and files I've found?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

31 May 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I having problems trusting my boyfriend who I've been dating for 6 months. He's my first boyfriend and he says he loves me deeply but I find it hard to believe him because of some of the things I have discovered on his phone whilst just playing around. I h... (268 words)

We are meeting for the first time and her parents want to know my job? Do I say I'm not working?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

31 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm in a little bit of a dilemma, and I need some advice. I met this girl in her late twenties on a dating site. She made the first move. We've only traded a couple of messages back and forth, and are planning to meet tomorrow. She said something that kind of struck me... (167 words)

Would it be bad to tell my girlfriend I want to spend time with my friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

31 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it bad to tell girlfriend I want to go meet some friends for an hour or two. Once she comes to my house she doesn't leave till weekend finishes. I can't get rid of her because she doesn't see me all week. Sounds bad but I'm a guy I like to do things she doesn't like like gym ... (64 words)

What do you think of my poem to my ex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

31 May 2014 (M)

age - Young lady's I sent a poem to an ex, I wrote, just like to know if you think, she would of like it, an she ever has regretted breaking up with me, its been almost two years no contact, this is the only time I did this, she left me to go back to her ex who beat her, I treated ... (225 words)

I can't handle being pregnant and not sure what to do all alone! Why isn't he helping me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3610 days ago

31 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy hii everyone.... I am in a grave problem. Help! I and my bf are in a relationship since 5 years. Though we love each other a lot now, but in past my bf's history is not that good. In first yar of our relation, he left me alone and ignored me. After that when I broke up ... (433 words)

Help me win my crush!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

31 May 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, I've just very recently started at a new, temporary job, and there's a girl there that I'm really keen on, she's 100% GF material, and I'm actually 80% sure that she's keen on me too! Problem is, messing things up with the fairer sex is my specialty (I seriously think I ... (527 words)

In a man's mind, why would he ask you to turn off the light to kiss him? I thought that men liked women to do the opposite.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3581 days ago

31 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it mean when a man wants to kiss you in the dark? Call me paranoid but I get the feeling that's a bad sign. I have self image related problems and far less from perfect but I'm always trying to improve the quality of my life- although it may take a while. I'... (191 words)

Should I stay friends with him or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

31 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a man about a year ago and became close friends. There was clearly chemistry and after a few months things progressed, we slept together and started hanging out a lot more. Things only got physical 5 or 6 times before it became obvious that I expected more from the ... (288 words)

Does he love me, why does he talk to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

31 May 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - i first met my second cousin in 2010,when we were introduced to each other by our grandparents. we don't know anything more about each other and we see each other only one or two times a year. but,whenever he see me,he comes up and talks with me as though we are close friends. ... (59 words)

I should cut the cord, because it is better to have good memories than bad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3611 days ago

31 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I had a very bad break up a year ago and then after six months. I met a man who is 20 years elder to me and he was interested in me and we soon shared a very understanding relationship. we were very clear that we did not want to make a serious commitment towards each oth... (288 words)

I need to work out access arrangements.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3610 days ago

31 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I will be filing a divorce petition soon and need some guidance for child visit arrangements on what people normally do. My ex stays 4 hours train journey from me and kids (we have 2 children 10 and 5). For the moment just to get away from him I had agreed that if he comes ... (226 words)

I'm done with dating and want no more to do with women!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

31 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't even know when to begin...it's like every time I try I somehow get used. My troubles started four girls ago and yet somehow I haven't learned my lesson. Let me tell you about myself; I'm twenty-three, college graduate, and living at home. I work a decent wadge, have a ... (460 words)

I've got a boyfriend but I have a HUGE crush on his cousin.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3599 days ago

31 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Ohkay , so im dating this guy ( lets say his name is ... bob ) bob and I are really close and i really love him , we broke up and then got back together. ( , but when we got back together we werent as close )anyway so then me and his cousin started getting close ( lets say his ... (194 words)

Will I just be another notch on his bedpost?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3610 days ago

31 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - [Mod note: could you please ask the question you'd like the aunts to answer? Your last comment said you need to be so desperate to be with a man like this so why are you even considering such thing with him? Thanks.] Hi dear agony aunts. Thanks for your help. I am still co... (251 words)