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Archived questions from: 22 May, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he just a "Player" as I thought he is?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3622 days ago

22 May 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Do you have to be concern if someone that you started exchanging emails online had stopped communicating with you? You see I started chatting with this man online and we even talked on the phone but when he said that he wanted to be my Boyfriend even if we haven't met yet, I of ... (223 words)

Is my girlfriend drinking too much?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3624 days ago

22 May 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a question about my girfriend. I think for a woman she drinks quite a bit. I am not a big drinker, may be that's why for me it seems like a lot. She ussualy goes between 7-10 drinks a week. She doesn't drink every day, but when she is out with girls it's 3-4. When we ... (172 words)

Bad impression of company after first job interview. Do I send a thank you note or leave it behind?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3624 days ago

22 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently finished my last semester of university and will be taking just one more class this summer. After that, I will be officially graduated. I had my first professional interview today with a small company. The company has been around for 20 years and employs just 20 ... (348 words)

A one night stand is still causing a problem a year later. I don't know what to do with my boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3624 days ago

22 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in my early twenties and about a year ago I started a relationship with a man who is 20 years older than me. He came into my life very quickly and it was quite overwhelming and I regrettably ended up having a one night stand. Me and my boyfriend weren't together at this ... (419 words)

Long distance relationship woes..is it worth it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3624 days ago

22 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Help! I'm in a long distance relationship, and have been for nearly 2 years. we've not spent much time together in person, 3 days and then 2 days, so just a few days here and there for only a few hours a day. most of the bonding has been online. I love my girlfriend and a... (501 words)

Help me support my grieving/depressed wife

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3622 days ago

22 May 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, My wife's mum passed away a few months back and I'm trying my best to be supportive but finding it real difficult. She's a stay at home mum with a 5yr old and 8 yr old, both at school. Our house is so chaotic it's unimaginable. We have a fair bit of space, but the m... (267 words)

Am I clingy? and is my boyfriends best friend a nut

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3624 days ago

22 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Well me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 6 months . He asked me out.my boyfriends best friend and me were really good friends before me and my boyfriend started dating, and now it's almost like he hates me! Me and my bf' s best friend talked all the time , then when ... (186 words)

I'm engaged but don't want to get married or have kids! Do I break things off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3624 days ago

22 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been engaged for a couple of months now. My boyfriend and I had talked about marriage vaguely before, and, as I love him to bits, I had always been positive towards it. It didn't feel like a serious discussion, so I hadn't really thought about it. Then he proposed ... (342 words)

I broke up with my LDR b/f because I wanted to date in real life. Should I not done so?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3624 days ago

22 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a long distance relationship for a little less than a year. My ex (feels weird to write that) was in a different country. I was very fond of him, I cared about him, and I know some people wouldn't call it love, but I loved him. I never met him in person, though we were ... (292 words)

My boyfriend is very upset since his ex is planning on moving farther away with his child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3624 days ago

22 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and living together for almost 2 years. He has a young daughter from a previous relationship and until recently things have been great between her mum and my boyfriend. Last month, a huge fight kicked off when her mum decided to t... (350 words)

I cant stand my girlfriend anymore but hate breaking up when she's at such a bad place in her life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3624 days ago

22 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - *First off, just for clarification purposes, I am a female, 21 years old, and I'm in a relationship with another girl. When I first met my girlfriend, it felt like something straight out of the movies. We were very much in love with each other and things were really plea... (810 words)

I don't know if she isn't interested or just waiting awhile to reply or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3624 days ago

22 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys I just need some basic advice. I met a girl, we got along really well. i visited her city and we spent two days together, although we met just as friends the days were very romantic, it went perfectly and she said they were the best days of her life. She seemed ver... (338 words)

If you initiated the breakup how did you feel afterwards?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3624 days ago

22 May 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My 11-month relationship ended a week and a half ago. It started with me bringing up his gaming habits and completely ignoring me. He did this during our 5-6 month phase. He talked about it then, and he said he does it because he doesn't know what wrong. The last that he gam... (1341 words)

Is being horny tons of times a day normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3624 days ago

22 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. Just wondering if being horny tons of times is normal. Ever since i turned 13 I've been getting horny urges. They were laxed originally but as i got to about 18 they started to become very abundant. My estimate (because i don't keep track) is about 3-5 times a day.... (183 words)

He cheated and I can't move past it

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3624 days ago

22 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - It's been over 3 years since my partner cheated on me and I can't move on from it. It sounds silly but I can be having a good time with him and it will crop up in my mind It always comes back to that and I throw it in his face all the time. He didn't just cheat on me once... (141 words)

Is he playing games with my head and heart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

22 May 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - HI all I am sorry if this is a bit long but I need to get this off my chest and hope to understand a bit better. I first started dating my partner a year ago next week. In the begining he told me he was with someone but has not seen her for 6 yrs as she is abroad trying to... (973 words)

Any rocker girl band love song ideas?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3613 days ago

22 May 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help with a small problem. My boyfriend and I have a cute little thing going where we tell each other to look up cute love songs and then add them to a playlist we have on Grooveshark. He has to look up songs by guy bands and I have to look up songs by girl bands. His ... (152 words)

How do I get him to express his love for me? He and his family withdrew the marriage proposal because of my health!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3625 days ago

22 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Agony aunts there, I met a guy a month ago through matrimonial site for marriage alliance.he is 6 years elder to me,both our families met and we both liked each other.After our meet he pinged me in Facebook and we were having short conversations.i told about my health p... (251 words)

How can I better judge if I'm overreacting or being walked all over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3625 days ago

22 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm the sort of person that when someone is my close friend I expect loyalty and consideration to be utmost. I'm very low maintenance otherwise but all my life I've been let down by this...sometimes marginally sometimes greatly. I understand this is natural and by human nature ... (341 words)

Will he still propose in the next few months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3625 days ago

22 May 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little more than year a half. We are both almost thirty and will actually be moving together within the next month. We love each other very much and we already say out loud or through text from a year ago ago how I love you forever ... (161 words)

Anyone else have a narcissist in their lives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3625 days ago

22 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I was just wondering if anyone else has ever discovered that there ex partner may of been a narcissit? I have been out of a long on/off reletionship for almost a year and have read up alot on narcissim. I believe my ex is just that! I knew him 10 yrs, we had 2 kids but our rel... (284 words)

How do I get my parents to understand this job is making me ill?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3624 days ago

22 May 2014 (?) age 26-29 - Literally the day I arrived home for the summer from university, I had a job an hour later. My dad pushed me into this job because he is friends with the manager and I'm grateful for the help, but I'm miserable! I understand that every job has it's flaws, I'm 19 and I've ... (440 words)

How do I deal with an emotional mother-in-law?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3625 days ago

22 May 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, my husband is in the Military and we moved around 3 times to different apartments everytime we moved has been very stressful for me and hard we always ended up fighting about it b/c my mother in law will harass my husband about it she wanted to help set up our new home. ... (674 words)

What should you not say to someone new?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3623 days ago

22 May 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I just have a question on hanging out with someone new. What are some things to avoid saying? I mean besides obvious things, such as telling them of a rough past with friends, asking questions that are too personal, inviting them to your home too soon, etc. I want to ma... (88 words)

I told her I liked her and pushed too hard, but I still want to sort things out

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3625 days ago

22 May 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, bit of a long complicated situation. So a while back I told one of my friends that I liked her as more than a friend and she was super cool about it but told me that she didn't feel the same way. We still remained friends but I always felt I wanted more even though I knew ... (480 words)

Second thoughts about lending my son money

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3625 days ago

22 May 2014 (M) age 41-50 - My son had been saving for a new car, in the past I have paid for his cars and spent a lot of money on them for him since he passed his test about 7 years ago. This time he has been saving for his own but we saw a very nice car and I did say I will lend him half tge money as it ... (214 words)

I don't know if she's gay; I don't even know if I'm gay

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3626 days ago

22 May 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, so lately I have been having these strong feelings for my friend Caitlin whom I don't no is gay or not, Infact I'm not sure that I'm even gay. All I do know is that every time I'm near her all I want to do is kiss her and hold her close and that wen she last hugged me I ... (80 words)