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36-40,
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writes:Two weeks ago I spent a few days in Belgium for Holidays and hit it off with this local guy... We got on so well that we saw each other a few days in a row. All this was completely unplanned! Everything seemed so natural and comfortable between us. We had a few "hot" moments too. I was always telling myself that this is just holidays and I will never see him again. Also we had just met so we don't really know each other. On the days of the goodbyes, he insisted we keep in touch and exchange contact information. Once back home i wrote to him "it was nice being with you blabla" (but nothing lovey dovey just generic) . I was really impatient for an answer... nothing happened... i was so frustrated and I didn't understand why. I went back to my routine and stopped thinking about him. But now he sent me an email out of the blue (a sweet response, hoping to see me again)... My feelings of infatuation are back. I'm a very defensive person. This is the first time such a hookup has every happened to me! I'm usually very cynical on people and relationships but I need to understand... Why did he respond to me after waiting so long? Is it just being polite or does part of him really mean it? How do guys work? What is he thinking when he sends me this response? I had managed to put him behind me as just a nice memory/holiday but his email makes me really want to see him again... Reply to this Question
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (13 May 2013):
 Ignore it. Tell him it was a one time thing and youre done.
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