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*ulliepeter
writes:hey guyz i like this guy so much he doesnt know and i was happy because i saw the way he looked at me and thought the feeling is mutual until today i got shocked and dissapointed realising that he has a girlfriend i saw them and he introduced her to me and my friend.so now am ten times lonely i dont want a person to have sex with .i want a relationship with a person who will love me not sex because al the time i only get men who want to sleep with me.what do i do to get a good man am pretty and i dont act innapropriate
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reader, Keeley345  +, writes (15 May 2013):
Well done for sticking by what you believe in and want. You sound like a girl with lots of self respect. Don't ever change. Why do you attract guys that are only after sex? I honestly don't know. Attraction is not easy to explain or understand unfortunately. What I do know is there is someone suitable for all of us. I don't believe in Mr Right or perfect but I do believe there are good guys out there. But how do you find a diamond in a rubbish bin? You don't. But you stay away from bad men and try to keep an open heart and mind open too. Not all men are after sex. Don't give up faith. I'm sure you'll meet a nice decent guy but you have to be patient. Ever heard the song ''you can't hurry love, you just have to wait?'' the lyrics are so true.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2013): Hey it is your body and your mind you don't have to bend over or be jumped on by nobody. You have tried this life style and you are not happy make some positive changes. You take control of a date. You don't have to put out on the first couple of dates it is not written anywhere. As a woman who is pretty you know that some men are going to hit on you.And by now you know that these predators hang out at bars and night clubs looking for women who are impressionable and who lack self confidence who can be duped and who are lonely and after a little patronizing these poor creatures will willing open their legs for strangers. You have to practice and change how you come across to men. There are all kinds self help books available. If you have extra money you can get professional advice to help you change you. You can be attractive , confident and strong and not come across as a weak vulnerable woman. Maybe you have to take another step and get involved in the community you know live in. Get out of yourself and give of your time. You will be so surprised how many good people live in your community. I am sure you will meet that special man . Look at your present friends also. Many times the ones who say they are your friends are nothing more than selfish self centered SOBs. Also take a look at this. Leave no stone un turned in your quest. Will you trip? Yes. Will it seem like nothing good will come your way? Yes. Remember life is hardly like the movies. I don't know very many people who met their life mate just like that. It is a road that is hardly travelled because it is very difficult to traverse and come out of without being bruised and injured . Don't beat yourself up and say if I had only done this or if I had only done that. The past does not have to equal the future. We make mistakes because we are human. But you and I also desire love, caring and companionship from that special man that needs more than your body. A man who wants and need the full package. He is there start looking right now.xoxo
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