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41-50,
*ibob
writes:Hello everyone. My bf is currently having big money issues and he's much to be blamed. He had taken an order for which he did not have sufficient capital to do the work. So he took a loan from the bank and borrowed money from family and friends. He started the work although he knew he would not be able to deliver the quantity expected. I warned him to drop the order as he was accumulating too many debt but he thought that i was discouraging him and i failed to see the benefits. He reached a point of no return. Now if he did not want to have problems with the bank, he had no option than to complete the order and get paid. I even lent him money but an amt i can afford to pay back. Then i don't know how he got stabbed and all his money was stolen. I don't know if he's just unlucky but it's the 3rd time since i know him that he's losing money like this. Now he can't pay bak his loan and i don't want to help him even if i could. He has created this mess. I'm even in debt as i helped him so i just want to leave him to die in his own mess
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reader, Dayzy  +, writes (26 January 2013):
He will suck you down with him, and already has. Saty with him only if you want to live with perpetual financial disaster, and loss of friends to whom he will be continually borrowing money without repaying it.
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reader, R1  +, writes (26 January 2013):
 Don't get involved financially at best you will end up resenting him for your money troubles, at worst you'll end up seriously in debt.
If you really love the guy support him emotionally but keep your bank details locked away!
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (26 January 2013):
 How long have you been with your boyfriend? Have you actually met him in real life? I'm asking because there are many scammers and fakes out there who are trying their best to get their hands on your money.
How long have you known him? Where does he live and what is his background?
This all sounds like a scam to me.
If he's making bad financial decisions then that's his problem. I'd leave him to deal with it on his own.
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