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I think my wife is cheating on me. We have 3 children together. What's my next step to deal with this?

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Question - (25 January 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 February 2013)
A male United States age 41-50, *schitzo n not writes:

born in 1981 met her 1996 married her in 2004

we have three kids oldest is 11 years old it is now 2013 next month is our meeting each other anniversery.

I suspect and i think she's cheating on me.

Anyone care to conversate on the matter? i hope this is posted.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2013):

hi,

question why do you think she is cheating?everAre there any signs? Have you ever cheated on her now or in the past? let me tell you something that old saying once a cheater always a cheater "Not True" and thst other saying the truth hurts "Not true" I say this the truth does hurt, but only for a while, but the lies from a the past and the lying now hurts even more because all that time you thought it was the truth it really wosen't. All I can tell you is tell her you want to go out you and her only no kids aloud and ask her to tell you the truth it better now then later..

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A female reader, oldbag United Kingdom +, writes (26 January 2013):

oldbag agony auntHi

Not much detail here really to go on, if you have proof she is cheating then confront her with it. She will probably lie or bluff if you have nothing concrete.

If you just THINK she may be cheating then something must have triggered that thought.Don't accuse her until you are certain because that will just cause more problems.

Are there texts,does she stay out late or go out more,has her behaviour towards you changed,has somebody said something?

Good luck and I hope your wrong

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