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*mit thakur
writes:i am really confused on my situation here..i am attracted to a girl..she always treats me as a friend only even though i make her laugh and i be with her to support her in her difficult times and she enjoys a lot when shes with me but even after that shes doesnt seems attracted to me..what could be the reason???on other hand my liking for her keeps on increasing everyday...i even get jealous when i see her standing with other guys and laughing and talking to them...why is she find them so attractive and not me?? i am a good looking guy ,then whats that i miss??why is she not picking my clues that i like her???i even thought of staying away for her so that the attraction goes away but it isnt ,so i am kind of in a jeopardy..please guys what should i do in this situation???
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reader, torisykes  +, writes (26 January 2013):
Forget the clues and tell her how you feel.you'll get anything if you dont get in the game- you can't win or lose if you dont have a pawn to play in the game of life.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (25 January 2013):
 I think your best bet would be to get her friends to think you are a date-able guy.
If you are just hoping she'll notice you because you are hanging around being attractive, um, that's not going to do it.
Get her friends to talk about how interesting and attractive you are, then you'll be further along with her. Take your focus off her for now and get into her friends' good graces.
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reader, Tom Obler +, writes (25 January 2013):
 Hi,
I'm afraid she just doesn't see you as boyfriend material. There is no mystery. You ask what you should do? Well I'm afraid for you, it simply means no longer thinking of her as a possible girlfriend. You will find that if she saw you as a potential boyfriend, then you would have already been dating. Save yourself a lot of wasted hopes and just accept her as a friend.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (25 January 2013):
 You have to show her you like her to ask her out on dates. If you had taken her on a date already it means she only sees you as a friend. Maybe she does not want a relationship for some reason. You have to accept that not every girl will be attracted to you, just like you won't find all girls attractive to date. The attraction didn't go away because you don't know for sure what she thinks. You are just waiting, hoping and being the passive one here.
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