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The girl at work doesn't want to date co workers-should I leave my job, in order to date her?

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Question - (21 February 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 February 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

Me and my girlfriend are on a break at the moment, i suggested it because i dont feel the same about her anymore. Its mainly because i like this other girl in work. I have been getting on great with her and just last night i told her i fancied her. She wasnt suprised but told me she doesnt want a relationship with someone in work. Is it worth leaving my job(which i hate anyway)to show her im worth a try?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2006):

If you are considering going out with other girls then you should break it off with your girlfriend, not just 'be on a break'! That is VERY unfair on your girlfriend and since it's you who has been forging bonds with other girls behind your girlfriends back then you obviously have no intention of getting back with her. Do you even think what she is going through in limbo at the moment no knowing if she is still seeing you or not?

If you were in a relationship you should have kept your distance from the girl in work and not let it get this far.

It sounds like the girl in work is using that as an excuse not to see you - take the hint. If she liked you that much, she would go out with you. And dont dare just get back with your girlfriend because you have been knocked back. Give her some respect.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2006):

you put a lot of effort into this girl. why didn't you bother with the last one even half as much? Did u quit jobs or make any sacrifices for her? wanker!! If she wanted a relationship with you she would have said so wouldn't she? What difference would it make where you work?

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