New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244988 questions, 1084408 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Is he just using me or is he really a genuine guy...advice needed

Tagged as: << Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (21 February 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 February 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

ive been getting on really well with this guy, we've slept together and he told me he dont want me to be with anyone else and he wants to see how things get on between us. i really need some advice does it sound like hes just using me or is he genuine.

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2006):

This question is really hard to answer because you don't give much detail. However, you will find out how he really feels. He could just be having his cake and eating it, having sex with you whilst trying to make up his mind whether he wants you or not.

Then again, he could genuinely care, and want to be with you.

If i were you in this situation, i'd stop having sex with him. Not stop seeing him, just cut off the sex and see how his reaction is. If he wants to know why, tell him that you feel like your relationship is just based on sex, and you want to know now whether it is going to go any further or not.

If he isn't prepared to answer you, or leaves you because you won't have sex again, get rid. You can do a load better

<-- Rate this answer

A reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2006):

You haven't given any details. You have given the broadest question ever! Like "What do people think about food?"

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "Is he just using me or is he really a genuine guy...advice needed"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0155803000088781!