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Archived questions from: July, 2007 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Should I make him choose between her and I, or just leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 525 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - i really dont know what to do! i'm seeing this very older guy.his 43 and i'm 22 when i met him he told me he wasn't married. then to come and find out he was living with this other woman and has 2 daughters.we still kept seeing each other and in the ...

I like her, but am holding back because she has a bf! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 524 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - hi i'm new here and not to sure how to start this, but could do with some advice. i've been working with this girl at work since the beginning of the year. When i first met her i liked her but now after getting to know her more i have a massive c...

The love of my life went out of town and I had sex with his best mate!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 526 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 7 month...he's the love of my life, and I want to spend my life with him. We've talked about Marriage, and moving in together. Eric is the best friend anyone could ever have, and its not in his character to ever-EVE...

We always make "a fresh start" but he ends up cheating. Should I dump him for good?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 526 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I won't go into details, but I have been with my husband for 6 years and we have children together. Recently he started to mix with a bad crowd. He has cheated on me various times throughout our time together, but we always said it would be a fr...

In love with my best friend's ex-girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - In love with my best friend's ex-girlfriend It's taken me some time to realize this but I am in love with my best friend's ex-girlfriend. The thing is, I am reasonably sure that she has no interest in me at all, she sees me as one of her best f...

Has my boyfriend been cheating on me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 520 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I'm 17 and am in my first relationship that has become sexual. My boyfriend (18)and I have been together since February of this year but I was told by a not-so-close guy friend (who doesn't like my boyfriend but has no known interest in me) that a ...

He said he wanted to go because he felt suffocated plus loads off arguments.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 526 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - Me and my partner split up over 3 months ago, he is 44 and I'm 30, we have a 7 month old baby together, he said he wanted to go because he felt suffocated plus loads off arguments. I find out about 4 weeks ago he is seeing someone else, I ...

My wife talks to him on her cell phone every night till 3am!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 526 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - My wife and I have been married for nine years and I've just found out she's been cheating, the thing is he calls her every night on her cell phone and they talk till 3am every night, I confronted her and she says she won't stop talking to him, ...

How can we repair the broken trust before it tears us apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 527 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - Hello! I was online the other day when a random woman contacted me telling me my boyfriend was chatting with her and planning on a rendezvous with her next weekend. She then went on to forwarding their entire conversation to me. It was very ...

My husbands ex is always at parties we go too.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - My husband's best friend's wife, and my husband's ex are best friends. So every time we go to my husband's best friend's parties ,his ex is there. We both talk to each other but still i feel uncomfortable and it makes me mad to think that my husband ...

My bf's mate calls me scum and punched his ex!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - Hi all, I have a massive problem that I have never heard of at my age, and I would like to know if this is unusual or does this happen a lot. My partner and I went through hell to be to-gether and I love him with all my heart. The problem is, now ...

I'm so lonely and I don't think he loves me anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 526 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I wanted to say hello to all on this site..I am a new one here,just found this site...I think I am going enjoy this place... Well anyway, my problem is also like one I read on here and that made me want to join... I have been married for 26...

Concerned about three-some!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - Ive been dating my g/f for about 6 months now, and shes pressuring me to have a threesome with one of her friends. The third person is a female, and it should be my fantasy to have it, but i extremly dislike the idea. i love her very much and i ...

How can I tell him that I like him, when he already has a girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - i'v known this guy for a few years now but we didnt really talk. i got this job about 6 months ago and he ends up working there too. ever sence iv been working there we've been talking alot about everything. He seems like the perfect guy, we get ...

He wanted no contact but I went to him and we had sex! Now he's mad at me..he thinks I have some type of 'sexual hold' on him...advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 528 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - bout 5 months ago my boyfriend of 3 and a half years split up with me - he felt he could not give me the support I wanted and deserved. I was devastated, I went into a complete emotional breakdown. Then all of a sudden another guy came into my life, ...

Do you think that I can trust my wife with this man in our life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - In May 2006 my wife of eight years began having an affair with a coworker. I confronted her a few weeks later and she said that their secret relationship was over. Throughout the rest of the year I correctly suspected that their affair was ...

We were seeing each other, even though he had a gf, but he said he had no feelings for me! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 528 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - Basically. I really like this guy and have done for the past year or so. Hes a really good friend of mine and we were seeing each other even though he has a 2 year girlfriend. He told me that he does have feelings for me, but it would never be ...

I can't stand the dog.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 528 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - I have started seeing a man and all is good apart from one thing. He has a dog, and has had him for 10 years now. I have a great fear of dogs stemming from when I was a child, especially staffs, and this man happens to have a staff. Even though ...

Picture of my rival in his wallet. Shouldn't it be me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 528 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - Perhaps this is an indication of desperation, so maybe someone can talk me out of it. I've been haunted by a sexy photo I saw in my boyfriend's wallet of my rival. Would it be awful of me to put in there a sexy photo of myself? Maybe it's a case...

My husband loves me, but he is horrible at showing affection!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 523 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - So I have been with my husband for five years and we just got married last month. He is the perfect husband other then the fact that he has A HORRIBLE time showing affection. I've confronted him many times over the years about this and he will be ...

My ex contacted me saying she had made a terrible mistake, thing is I still love her but can't hurt the new girl I'm with.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - I wrote in a while ago because my ex fiancee and myself split up, we was together for 3 years and I still very much loved her and I was advised to give her space because the split was her choice. In the time apart we still spoke to each other but I ...

Recently he rung me asking me not to get in contact for some bazzar reason but then after 2 weeks he rung and I was so happy for about a week..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 529 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Hii... I'm 17 years of age, and I was in a 5 month relationship which fell to pieces and then I got over it when somebody else came along. He had a girlfriend and I asked him about her and he told me he had left her. We started seeing each other ...

I fall for guys really easy and have 2 that like me just now, I just don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 529 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I'm 14 and fall for guys really easy. I have a guy back home wanting to make a go of me and him but I was back in England (in Spain atm) we always hit off, got along and everything but earlier this week I met a guy and he´s eveything I want. He is ...

A while ago I found out my girlfriend kissed another guy at a party, she didn't tell me about this, I found out through a friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 529 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - A while ago I found out my girlfriend kissed another guy at a party, she didn't tell me about this, I found out through a friend. She said he kissed her and she didn't kiss him. I'm finding it hard to believe because she didn't tell me about this, I ...

I've never cheated on anyone ever and don't understand why these feelings are so strong....help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Any advice would be gratefully received.... I'm a woman in my mid thirties with three children and a lovely man in my life. Recently a new guy started work where I do. The attraction was almost instant and as the weeks have gone by the flirting...

I started dating a guy who is engaged but ended it recently, cos I know he's still going to marry his fiance; what do we do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - so i have been seeing a guy frm work for about a year now, we started off as really good friends and we confided in eachother with everything... As time went on we become very close and basically could not go a day without seeing or speaking...

I have the 'hots' for her bf! How do I break them up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I know its wrong but I have the ''Hot's'' for my friends boyfriend... What can I do to break them up???...

Fallen for boy on msn but what about my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - This might seem silly, but at the start me and my boyfriend split up, but promised to get back together when we was sorted. But during the break i started talkin to a guy on msn and we hit it off. We got on amazingly and i fell for him. But i never ...

She says she's not "in love" with her boyfriend, and yet she won't leave him for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 530 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - Help! Im in a lil dilemma at the mo. I have gotten into a messy relationship wiv a girl who is in a relationship already. Prob is she was just going about her life and maybe thought that was it for her and she would settle for her less than perfect ...

Do I ditch the guy thats cheating on me with my best friend, even though I've been dying to date him!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 530 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - o.k well see,i found out my boyfriend iz cheating on me with my bestfriend!!!!!how do i kno?becuz not only did my friend tell that she saw them kissing and hugging n the movies,but hiz friend told me the same thang 2!!!! i kno it's tru cuz they were ...

I think he prefers this new "friend" to me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - First off I'm gay and I have a boyfriend that I love very much, he just met this guy that he works with and he told me that he liked him and he liked him back, and he said that it will stay a friendship and he recently started to hang out with him. ...

Awkward situation or player?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 532 days ago

25 July 2007 (F) - Can a guy really like 2 girls at the same time? I met a guy i know through my ex partner one night in a club, he was out with friends and a girl who he had agreed to meet that night (she had a boyfriend at home). We ended up kissing and he off...

Some guy has just informed me, my girlfriend is his girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 532 days ago

25 July 2007 (M) - Please i have a girlfriend whom i know for long time ..we were friends, then we went to the same college and now we are in relationship for about 8 months now But One day, some guy came to my office to tell me that the girl i love is his girl...

I love my girlfriend but i can't stop thinking about my best friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 532 days ago

25 July 2007 (M) - I have a GF, and my best friend who is a girl we shared a hug and there was this moment when i forgot my GF and being with my best friend seemed perfect. What should i do?, i love my GF but now i am constantly thinking about my best friend in a ...

I started sleeping with a girl I really like while her boyfriend was away; he's coming back and she doesn't want to see me as often. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 225 days ago

24 July 2007 (M) - A few months ago, i became friendly with a local girl who moved over here. She was stunningly good looking and way out of my league, and i found out she had a boyfriend who'd gone to australia for a year. But as we became friends i found out she ...

I like one of my best friends who has a girlfriend now; I won't make a move while she's around, so should I just wait and hope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - Hi, My problem is probably quite small and easily solved, but its at the forefront of my mind at the moment. I've recently discovered feelings for one of my best friends and he certainly gives off the impression that they are reciprocated, as...

My Russian girlfriend is going away on holiday with another guy

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 532 days ago

24 July 2007 (M) - Hi, I have a Russian girlfriend who is about to go away on holiday with a male long term friend! Do you think that I should be cool about this? ...

I met a great guy during a break with my boyfriend, but mistakenly thought he wasnt interested and got back with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

24 July 2007 (M) - I got with my boyfriend last October and we had a lovely time together, but it came to a head in April when I realised he was just too childish for me. I then met someone else in that time who lives about 2 hours away but share a lot in common with. ...

I've messed up big time and get sick thinking about what I've done. Now my husband despises me. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - I am a woman aged 45. I have been married for 25 yrs and I have done a really really stupid thing. I was in my local watering hole recently (my husband had gone home)I was annoyed with him and I was also menstral,hated the world etc. I got so drunk ...

I caught my husband cheating with his best friend; now he wants an open relationship with her and I. I can't accept it, what should I do? I'm desperate

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - I recently caught my husband and best friend in an affair that as it turns out has been going on for seven years. She has always been around the house several times a week for the entire time. I thought something was going on about 4 years ago and ...

I'm the 'other man'; should I pull away and see if she leaves him for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

23 July 2007 (M) - I am in a love triangle where im the other man. I know none of her friends or family and she has been in a relationship for about few years that has run most its course. Been seeing her 6 months on/off. I know she is not happy as she made choices to ...

I wouldn't let up and we slept together; she is guilt ridden because she has a boyfriend. How can I make her all mine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 534 days ago

22 July 2007 (M) - Hi, this is a toughie for me but cannot work this one out. Met a girl over the phone at work, really hit it off, flirted via e-mail but ove the months could not even get her number although the flirting continued both ways i pursued and would not ...

Is she just using me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 535 days ago

22 July 2007 (M) - I have liked this girl for a while now, we have got to 3rd base on a number of occasions, however she just sees me as 'a bit of fun'. I asked her to go out with me on a date and she turned me down saying she likes another guy. This guy who she like...

What do i do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 535 days ago

22 July 2007 (F) - I am in love with this boy and we are together. But this other boy that i fancied a while ago, before me and my bf got together, has started to like me. I don't know what to do!!! HELP?...

He left his pregnant GF for me, but now that she has had the baby I am jealous that he is seeing her so much

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 536 days ago

21 July 2007 (F) - il start from the beginning. started a new job, was given my tour and i spotted this lad there, he was gorgeous, i knew from wen i first seen him that he thought the same. he used 2 stay after work for a drink, so i stayed a couple nights a week s...

My online romance doesn't love her husband but I feel like I don't compare

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 536 days ago

21 July 2007 (M) - I am 21, living with my parents, working full-time, and a college student. I only have a few friends to start off because I enjoy being alone most of the time. I love spending time online. Because of that, I met this girl from another state, she's ...

I like both him and his brother and they are ok with that

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 538 days ago

19 July 2007 (F) - I'm dating this guy and I like him, yet I like his half brother who lives with him. They both are pretty close and like me. Him and his brother have talked about it and their fine with it. The guy im dating is accualy telling his brother to make a ...

How do I choose which guy to go after?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

19 July 2007 (M) - Im a 23 year old gay male living in UK. I have been openly gay for 3 years. Recently I have fell for 2 guys. Both have told me that they are very interested in me. One is 19 and the other 17. At the moment i haven't even kissed either of t...

Should I have sex with both men to double my chances of conceiving?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 535 days ago

19 July 2007 (F) - Hi, I am a single female, 39 years old, and I am dating a new guy. I am anxious to have a child right away, and have shared this with my partner,. he is ok "if it happens", but it not interested in working as a team to test my ovulation and ha...

He wants to see her on his birthday, but not me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 537 days ago

19 July 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 3 years.For some reason every so often he gives his number to other girls at his work and texts them behind my back,but I found out about the one just recently because I felt suspicious.Anyway,Its his ...