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writes:I'm dating this guy and I like him, yet I like his half brother who lives with him. They both are pretty close and like me. Him and his brother have talked about it and their fine with it. The guy im dating is accualy telling his brother to make a move with me. His brother and I are really good freinds. I'm starting to like him more then the guy I'm dating now.What sould I do??Should I end things with the guy i'm dating?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your advice.
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reader, mary-lee  +, writes (20 July 2007):
 if either of these guys really liked or loved you they wouldn't be willing to share you. so if you are in this relationship looking for a long term thing, then you are in the wrong place. both are probably just in it for a root. if your in it for a root, then good luck, otherwise get out now.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (20 July 2007):
 I think they are using you.
My guess is that neither one really would like you enough for something long term, so they probably see you as someone to fuck and have fun with...which means they will share you so that they both get some action, but I sincerely doubt either of them wants you for more than that.
If you are OK with having both as sex-buddies, then go for it. Chances are you will end up in a threesome situation at some point with them. This is a time limited thing. I do not see a long term future here with you and either of them.
Whatever you do, make sure to use birth control. Things like this tend to get messy.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2007): well your current boyfriend obviously doesn't care about you very much. as for the other one if you like him go for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2007): Here's the real question who do you feel that you can see yourself spending the rest of your life with or who do you feel you can share your life with its all up to you make a wise decision.
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reader, _Edward_  +, writes (19 July 2007):
 Wow… well you should spend a few days with one guy and than do the same thing with the other guy. Try figuring out which one makes you feel better and just go with that.
I’m sure that one of them will understand what’s going on, just say to the one your not interested in, that you could steel be friends…
I hope everything will work out just fine… =D
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reader, blissxixta  +, writes (19 July 2007):
 Now i want you to be honest with you... If the guy tried to dump you for your sister, how would that make you feel? Be real with yourself girl. I think your guy has a big problem - telling his half brother to go for you. Tell me, how long have you been dating him? I think something is wrong somewhere. Give me your answers and maybe I'll have some answers for you. Meanwhile, don't you try dating his brother. It is silly. Don't make a fool of yourself, sweetie. You are better than that. Ugh! Later girl.blissxixta
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