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writes:I am 7 months pregnant and 19 years old, my boyfriend who is 28 has just left me to go back with his ex wife, I am crushed, how do i win him back? how am i going to cope with a baby on my own i need him. please help me! x x
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reader, april1116  +, writes (17 November 2009):
 we'll honey just accept it but make sure you put that sucka own papers and get some support, i know you are hurt but sometime thats what we go through in life so suck it up the best you can and make sure he helps you out with that child. GOOD LUCK
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): wow you are a brave girl. i am 19 and even thinking about having a child at this age scares the hell out of me. i really do feel for you hun.as for the father, it may be because he is scared about becomming a father especially if he is affraid of what people may say about the age gap between you two. i am not the most experienced with relationships but i must say that although you are hurting so much right now, you really need to take each day as it comes and focus all your attention onto yourself and your lovely little bump :)there are so many single mothers out there and if they can do it, i am sure you can too. have you also spoken to a family member or talked to an organisation to find out about certain types of support that can be put into place?i really wish you all the best but like i say, although you may love this man think about what he has done... is it worth trying to get him back? do you not think it would happen again and really really please look after you and your baby, dont worry about him. if he was worth it, he would be waitng on you hand and footall the best sweetiexxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): Do you need him? Or want him? i was in the same situation as you before. My boyfriend left me to go back to his ex when I was pregnant. But as I came closer to my due date he started coming around to me saying he had made a big mistake and I took him back. Big mistake soon after our baby was born he left me again and went back to his ex. I was devestated at first but I knew I was better off I didnt need someone like that in my life when I had a baby. So I moved on and with all the support from my family and friends I was better off and so was our baby. Now im in a happy relationship with a new man who accepts both me and my son and Ive never been happier. If u have enough support u will b fine.
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reader, MrMuscleVlad +, writes (16 November 2009):
My best advice is don't try to win him back. He's proven you can't rely on him as a partner anymore, but he still has a responsibility as a father. Whether that's helping out financially, or actually being there for his kid, he does have a responsibility to help. This should be your main focus right now, making sure he knows this. As much as it hurts to lose him, your priority is now your child.
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