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*tothek
writes:Okay so I really like this boy, he has a girlfriend, who he has been with for 5 months. They have broken up a few times, and whenever they have he came to me and I listened to him. He complained about her several times to me, but then goes and makes up with her. I have very strong feelings for him, he's so funny and when I am with him he just makes me feel so happy. I really don't want to interfere with him and his girlfriend but at the same time I really can't hold it in any longer. I am scared that if I do tell him, it will completely ruin our friendship, and I really have no idea how he feels about me. Help would be greatly appreciated, thanks amigos! :)
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (18 May 2009):
Sweetie, he keeps going back to his girlfriend.
If you really don't think it will work between them then tell him to stop coming and moaning to you all the time and make his mind up.
He's either with her faults and all or he has to end it and be single.
Once he's single and over her then you can tell him how you feel. Don't tell him while she is in the picture or there is a good chance you'll end up getting used while he bounces between you and her. Or if you do tell him then tell him but say you will not be with him or even hold hands with him while he has a girlfriend.
Tell him to stop using you as a counselling service and get single as there are better girls (like you) out there for him.
Make sure they are over each other before you start dating.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, arie  +, writes (18 May 2009):
 um i really suggest that u tell him how you feel because there may be a chance that he like you more than his girlfriend. it is a risk to lose a friendship over this but you have to ask yourself is he really worth it? laughs and fun only go so long before you have to get serious. get to know him a little longer and get to know his serious side ok, dont rush anything and good luck sweety godbless
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