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30-35,
*rBrightside90
writes:Hey there,My girlfriend is always very rude when I want to talk to her about my feelings or stuff that bothers me. She sometimes makes me very sad or angry, and she doesnt seem to care.Today i had a fight with her about this , and she kept acting very immature, and I started to cry, i could not control my emotions anymore. So i ignored her, she called me and appologized, Then about 30 minutes later, she commented this guy on facebook with this; sexy beard. And everyime i try to grow a beard she is telling me that i look like a hobo etc, so I asked her what made his beard so sexy. She got mad instantly, started accusing me of being jealous.Then a funny thing happend, she told me that she is being rude to me, and treating me like crap for a reason. Only problem is she doesn't trust me anymore and she is not telling me this reason (I told one of her secrets to my best friend, and she read my IM screen.)She did tell me its not about me, it has to do with her.I dont know what to do, what to think.p.s. She told me that I am funnier when I am trying to express my feelings than when i am actually telling a joke, and she laughed. (and she knows that i am having a very hard time expressing my feelings.)She does stuff like this all the time.
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reader, philipgifts  +, writes (17 May 2009):
 I think she feels incontrol of the r/ship. She feeds off of your emotions, to have a laugh later about. I would dumper soon. Do you want to be in a r/ship with a person who is going to alaways not want to talk about the issues in your's or her life. She doesn't want to listen to you or talk about things that may help your r/ship, or help you with any issues going on in your life. Try to get with a girl that wants to listen and talk about her feelings, and wants to fix and mend issues that may come up. This girl clearly doesn't like you, she just wants to use you and control you and maybe see another guy off to the side. Why are you in this r/ship when you could have something better, don't setle for her.
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reader, chickchick  +, writes (17 May 2009):
 this is a very difficult situation,
maybe just say look , i dont like the way things are going can we just talk about this and clear it up ?
just ask for a talk and if she refuses and laughs then its up to her , but if she does then i think she doesn't care about you and she is not worth the hassle really.
good luck.
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