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He's hot but I think he may be gay! What should I do?

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Question - (29 September 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 September 2008)
A male age 26-29, anonymous writes:

hi i met a guy how is hot and i think he is half gay. i really like him and we make each other laugh. i tried calling him but he wont answer or even txt. he is on to drugs and were the same age 13. the other day 9/27/08 i was asleep at a sleep over and he laid next to me on the floor i didnt move because i didnt think he would pull anything... but at 2:00 he rolled on top of me and stayed there for a while. when i woke up he was next to me and his feet were around me legs but he has pictures of girls all over his phone even kissing someone. my friend asked to sleep over again in 2 weeks he will be there. what should i do

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (30 September 2008):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntI agree with the reader below. I would've pushed him off! lol and then rolled onto him, and not on top of in a sexual way, but like in a smushing way. lol

Regardless of whether he is straight or gay, he needs to respect your boundaries. I think you should find someone who can do that.

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A female reader, GirlyonFire Canada +, writes (30 September 2008):

littlesuziepie It's a boy who wrote this question, not a girl. They are sleeping over cause it's just 3 boys. That's why the mom's not worried!

Ummmm... How do you feel about this situation? are you confused? scared? or attracted?

OK if you were my son and you told me this I would beg you not to sleep over there again! I would tell you that you could blame it on me and make your friends think I am mean, I don't care! either way you are too young for this stuff, and I hope you are not doing drugs, These kids sound like BAD NEWS! I think you need to get out of it. Find some nicer friends to hang around with!

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A female reader, littlesuziepie  United States +, writes (30 September 2008):

littlesuziepie  agony auntHi. Did he do anything when he got ontop of you? He could be gay and just not sure of it yet. He might have been testing out the situation and seeing if he got any feelings from being ontop of a girl.

You sound really young. Why would he be sleeping over with you and your friend?

I think you should worry about being friends and not so much on sexual preference.

He shouldn't be getting close to you or touching you while your sleeping. That is violation.

Be careful ok. If I were your mom I would make sure you were safe and not exposed to this. Please take care luv.

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