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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for a good while now, but here lately he's been very busy. He's getting signed(possibly)to a recording contract soon, so he's constantly been working on his album and he just doesn't seem to have the time for me. I know he's doing what he loves, I just wish we had more time together. My question is: how do I keep from getting stressed out about this? Is it really worth holding on to? Reply to this Question
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reader, SarahOwen  +, writes (12 October 2008):
Maybe it's worth talking to him? Booking some serious quality time after this whirlwind is over might give you both something to look forward to...
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reader, shiraz +, writes (12 October 2008):
hiyahh hes probably so wrapped up in his own work hes completely missing how it is your feeling and what his work load is doing to you and your relationship, although its blind to him now when all dies down it will become clear to him and either a- you will have left or b- youve stuck by him and god will he apreciate that. im not stcicking up for him because work isnt and excuse for neglect but im just saying its a big thing for him and its his only focus point right now it doesnt mean he loves you any less or his feelings have changed in the sligtest his mind is just elsewhere. feeling anyones second best is hard and i know what your saying but you seem to love this guy so sit and talk to him, telling you so want to stick by him but you finding it hard right now and hopefully he will understand and see his ways and know how to fix them- i wish you all the best - i know this wont ov helpped as all ive doone is stick up for him im honestly not! i just wanted you to see it from both sides hope all goes well x :)
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