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I like him, not sure I love him. What should I do?

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Question - (23 October 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 October 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *zzygurl writes:

i met a guy online am 16 and we started chatting and he gave me his phone number to text him, i texted him n later he sent me his pic and he told him he was cute P.s hes really nice and he told me to send him my pic i sent him n he told me i waz cute...we were really getting along n later he told me he likes me then later he changes it to luv...but i like the guy im not sure i luv him...what im i suppose to do, help pls

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (24 October 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntyou like him.

you may luv him

you do NOT love him.

what you ae supposed to do:

continue on being friends... chatting texting etc.

DO NOT get sexual on the phone or email or in texts.

what is the time frame for the two of you to meet IRL?

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (24 October 2011):

janniepeg agony auntOf course it's not love, you know it. This is what players say to get you hooked. Since this is mostly a texting game, there is no harm in playing along. Act all happy and cheesy, tell him if he loves you then you should get married. I bet this will call off his bluff and make him run. It could all be an innocent expression but I find "loving" someone online you've never seen kind of annoying.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2011):

Hmm, I'm 19 and have been in love twice. The first guy I fell in love with was when I was 16, so I'm not going to say you can't love him yet, because your only young. That would make me a hippocrite. What I will say though is that the guy I first fell in love with had been a friend of mine for years, we were then together for about 3 months and ahen he finally asked me out we were together for about 8 months after that. I would be very surprised if you were in love with someone who you didn't know very well, so don't rush things. If things go furthur, and you do genuinely end up feelin like you love him you don't want the words to have been wasted. My advice would be hang on to those three little words until you know you mean them and the person your giving them to deserves them. If you end up saying "I love you" to every other person that you feel affection for it loses it's meaning. I hope this helps :)

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A male reader, landomando United States +, writes (24 October 2011):

Have u even met him in person yet?

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