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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i just found out that my girl friend is exchanging dirty messages and flirts on the phone with a guy she says is her friend.i asked her about it and she got all defensive n blamed me that i had trust issues,plz help.
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reader, frankman  +, writes (24 October 2011):
She is a cheater with so little love for you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 October 2011):
So she's exchanging dirty texts with another guy then blames you and says you have trust issues?
You know, this is a really big red flag and is actually a sign of her guilt. She knows full well she's in the wrong, but she knows that you'll take it. Perhaps the time has come for you to ditch her and find a woman who actually cares for you, doesn't send dirty messages to other guys and doesn't then blame you.
I'd never accept this. Not in a million years.
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reader, tb0721 +, writes (22 October 2011):
 First of all if you two are together she shouldnt be sending messages like that to another guy. Should she be placed in your shoes she wouldnt like it either, and if it truly wouldnt bother her Id say shes not committed to you. You may have trust issues but many people who have a guilty concious about what they are doing tend to try and flip the switch and blame the other person. I think you should pay close attention to the signs, without being overly invasive, and try not to be played for a fool. trust me, that is much easier said than done as i have been in your shoes. Good luck!
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