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Archived questions from: 4 January, 2010 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

Thinking too much of this other girl..help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

4 January 2010 (?) - dear cupid, i have been with my partner for nearly two years now. i met her just before and fell in love with her straight away but recently a girl that has been missing from my life for 7 years now, because i moved home, has started to contact ...

My girlfriend went traveling and came back single!! I don't know what to do! Advice, please?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - i was going out with a girl for 6 years up until last may when she traveled to Australia for 7 months. everything was fine before she left in that we promised to stay together etc, loved each other etc. while she was traveling she met another guy ...

Should I stay and be patient, or is over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been off and on for 1 year and 8 months. He has never cheated or lied to me. I have lied to him, but he forgave me. We are totally opposite. We really love each other and can get jealous over little things. I was going to ...

Wife of 15 years is cheating, where do we go from here?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - I could use a little advice. I've been married to a great woman for 15 years and I thought things were going well. But one month ago I discovered by accident that she had a secret email account. Well, after lots of back and forth, she admitted ...

Want to have an affair with guy who has girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - so i am recently seperated from my husband. there is this guy at work and we have been flirting a lot for like the past 3mos. the 2 of us have proven to each other that we are sexually attracted to each other. the other night he invited me out for ...

B/f broke up with me because he heard I was cheating on him with his brother

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2926 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - me and my ex were together for 2 1/2 months and then he dumped me because some one told him i was cheating with his 18 year old brother and i wasnt but now he hates me and i didnt do anything i tryed to tell him but he wont lisen and all i can do ...

He went back to his ex, going to try things out for 3 months, what am I supposed to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - About 6 months ago (June, 2009) I started getting to know G. better, we really matched... the only unfortunate thing was that he was going to marry someone else next year. 6 months ago I was dating a boy myself, but as I got closer to G. (let's call ...

Husband had affair and part of his story is not true

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - My husband cheat on me and told me that is was an ongoing affair for a few months. He revealed that he loves her, but says he loves me and wants to work out our issues. He swears he will never do it again. I agreed to go to counseling and to forgive ...

Boyfriend semi cheated!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - well to start of my boyfriend over the summer was in basic training and then work training. we wrote to each other everyday..and i trusted him with all my heart till this, i was in his laptop and i was looking thru is mobile uploads to find he had a ...

12 years later I am married but I recently restarted my affair with my ex married lover! Please advise.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - Almost 20 years ago, I was in a relationship that was not good for me for a variety of reasons. I was very young and convinced that I could not do any better so I stayed. I began having an affair with my boyfriend’s married best friend. This was ...

Does the problem lie with me? Is there any hope for this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - Hi Firstly a little back ground on my GF. She used to be a player and have flirt with other man. Now she has pledge her fatefullnees to me but still has many male friends. She talks about sex very casually to them and she seems to share many...

After I couldnt make her orgasm I feel like a failure and I have lost my sex drive! But if I don't make passes at her she thinks I'm cheating! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - Hi im 24 and me and my fiancee have been together 2yrs. we are both pretty insecure people but are expecting our first child any minute now. im very stressed atm and finding work mentally demanding alongside all the preparations for baby. anyway now ...

Why is my husband using adult dating sites?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - Hi every one. My husband and I have been together for 8 yrs. I'm 32 he is 27. We have a health sex life, we argue just like normally married people. So my question it why is he looking up adult dating sites. He was 19 when we got together and had ...

How can I fix our relationship after I found out about his double life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year now , we were best friends for two years before he finally asked me out , just before he asked me out i found that he had like around 50 chicks sending him nude pictures and he was playing all ...

I suspect my partner of cheating. What do I do next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - Is it a good way to Confront my partner if I suspect her of Cheating ? I am not sure. Trust Level is sliding... Asking her on those lines would be like giving up Trust and Confidence, that took years to build. (Denial is expected) Not...

Did my fiancee cheat on me? And how can I tell if she has been around a bit before she met me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one post] So I'm going to try to break down a lot of facts into short statements: Dated a girl for 4 months and moved in together. Lived together for 5 months and got en...

My boyfriend is cheating with a "cougar" and now has an emotional attachment to her. Should I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - So I have been with my bf for 16 years. We have 2 teenagers together and pretty much live as if we are married, just no papers. Recently this past summer, he was out of town and met some 61 year old "cougar" in a bar. My bf is 41, so I can't really ...

Best male friend with feelings? My boyfriend is not happy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - I hope this doesn't sound too silly and immature. But sometimes, people just don't know what to make of a situation or how to put a question into intelligible and/or coherent words and thoughts... My best friend (whom is a man) and I have been ...

Do I get a divorce and go with this new woman or stay with my wife?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

4 January 2010 (M) - Here are the facts: Married 4 years, prior to that dated for about 6. I am 30, she is 30, we don't have any children. We have owned our own home for about 2 years. Sex is not a problem, we have great sex. Sometimes she nags, but no big d...

Broken Heart in Ohio

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - OK, I'll make it quick. I am an older lesbian in a relationship with a younger lesbian. We have been together for a year and a half, and living together for a year. She has been very smothering and overwhelming and us living in a studio apartment, ...

I'm single having an affair with married man. Please help me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

4 January 2010 (F) - I am thanking you open-minded guys in advance. To make my story short, I'm having an affair with a married guy. I met him when I was still a medical representative and we both have same area. For the first time we met I knew I liked him. Knowing ...