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writes:Ok so I've really taken to my old English teacher. She's nice but nobody really understands that she cares. I'm a girl, but I really connect with her :D I went through a lot this year to say the least. My mom was really badly hurt and didn't act the same until May, my family isn't in my state, a girl at my school died and this teacher knew her, I was constantly under pressure organizing a club in her presence because they wouldn't work, my best friend told me she might be pregnant, etc. I put my feelings out in letter format- 5 pages. I'm not going to give it to her but I want to talk to her. See, she's not my teacher this year but she will be next year... she helped me when my bff was really in trouble. I went to her class and we talked. At the end I thanked her and told her that she means a lot to me. The counselor, who doesn't know I have a crush, says wait it out this summer before I have her class again.I might see this teacher tomorrow/next day and I want to see her again, but I'm not sure why I should talk to her . The letter was badly written but I mean 5pgs. can I explain some of the stuff I'm feeling to her in person? Should I wait another year, wait until I'm out of school, or what? The letter said I thanked her for everything, told her that with my mom I couldn't properly run the meetings, I thought she hated me because of the meetings, I care about her and gave some anecdotes of what really happened. I needed her, she was there for me last year, but this year was busy and cold. I don't know if she likes me or what. I want to talk to her, but I already did so I see no reason to. I merely mentioned my friend's problem, not my feelings. Thanks!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (6 June 2011):
 I'm with the other answer..just tell your teacher "thank you" for being there for you when you didn't have anyone.
Also, DO NOT tell her you have a crush on her. She doesn't reciprocate. You are a child and she is an adult. It is illegal for you to have a relationship with your teacher. She could get fired, even go to jail. I'm sure you don't want that to happen to your teacher.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2011): that was confusing :$
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- you cant tell your teacher you have a crush on her. no. im sorry
- you dont need to give her a five page thank you later
just one day after class say something like i really want to thank you for everything & how youve been there for me, it means a lot .
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