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What would be the best way to ask her out?

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Question - (18 August 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 August 2011)
A male Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i am in love with this girl. i am 38 years old and she is 24 years old. she does not know how i really feel about her. we have a few things in common. how would be the best way for me to ask her out?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (19 August 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntAre you friends or is this a mad crush where you gaze from afar and will be seen as a stalker if you talk to her?

If you are already friends then just ask her.

When I turned 38 my boyfriend was 24.... we are a bit more than 13 years apart... I was the one who pursued him.

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A male reader, Tom Obler  United Kingdom +, writes (19 August 2011):

Tom Obler  agony auntYou will have to gradually build up trust with her and begin talking about general interests. Don't start telling her how you feel as this is a big turn off for a lot of people. As you are with her, see if she responds towards you and flirts. If she doesn't flirt or suggest things then let her go. You need to build a connection with her first. If you just ask her out, then you may well shock her and embarrass her. Build up slowly.

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A female reader, Charles_Bowen Nigeria +, writes (19 August 2011):

Charles_Bowen agony auntI you love some one walk up to her and tell her you love her,it's never a sin,jst go tell her how your feel about her and express ur feeling o her am sure she wil consider you

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