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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I be more interesting in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2880 days ago

6 June 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys so I need some advice on how to be more interesting in my relationships. i'm kind of quiet and my last boyfriend stated how I wasn't enough of a 'challenge' and he wanted someone who brought more to the table. I don't want to make the same mistakes in the future. ... (129 words)

Why am I worried about this one woman in particular around my boyfriend? how can I handle my insecurities over this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2880 days ago

6 June 2016 (F) age 41-50 - So... maybe it's my fault for asking.... but.... Asked my boyfriend of 3 years if he would ^^^k this woman who runs in our social circle IF he was NOT with me. He was not too keen on answering at first but he DID say point blank "YES" if he was NOT with me. He said I am... (437 words)

Does it seem that this type of man would love a girl of this nature? What's the attraction?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2881 days ago

6 June 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Can this guy really be deeply in love with this girl? I have a college classmate/group member who I kind of have a crush on, but his relationshiup with his girlfriend is kind of questionable. Had a friend ask him if he has a girlfriend, and he said, "Yes, I love her." I d... (353 words)

He's dating one of my best friends. I really like him. He keeps asking me out, and I reject him. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

6 June 2016 (F)

age 18-21 - So I've like this boy in my year for a while now but he's going out with one of my best friends. However he is still showing signs of liking me after over two years of him liking me. All the time he asked he out I rejected him. We are now really close friends, he know... (97 words)

How can I positively identify if my Bf is cheating on me, or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2881 days ago

6 June 2016 (F) age 36-40 - Hello. How do I know, I mean REALLY know if my boyfriend is cheating on me? His office is mostly women employees. And I met him that way. He owns a small business. He has about 10 women who work there and only three men, all of whom are older and married. I started out... (241 words)

Is my instructor good enough?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2879 days ago

6 June 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know if this is allowed to be discussed on this website but I just wanted other people's opinions. I have had driving lessons for 8 months now, done around 30 hours of driving with my instructor as well as around 30 hours in my own car which adds up to about 60 hours. ... (464 words)

Dumped and I don't know why

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2880 days ago

6 June 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf of six months just broke up with me and I am devasted - to begin with I don't know how to deal with the fact that I am turning 30 in three months and still alone- he broke up over a text message because we don't see things eye to eye- meaning besides doing everything he ... (312 words)

Any tips to ensure things can progress positively between this girl and I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2881 days ago

6 June 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, Basically I'm a bit of an idiot when I'm drunk lol I messaged a girl that I think is attractive when I got home one night and asked if I could take her out on a date, we got chatting for a bit and she said yes. Sounds great, but the thing is I've never spoken to th... (165 words)

Is there a bias to the answers here?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2879 days ago

6 June 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - I was wondering why aunts and uncles are more willing to answer questions that are related to below belly button , thresum, Fwb, F buddies, but are less likely to help on some serious questions regarding other issues? Have we gotten some preferences here or they are just expert ... (54 words)

Can the love that once existed be rekindled between us or are we done?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2881 days ago

6 June 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been married for 23 years and been with my husband since we have been 14 years old. I just recently found out he had an affair on me with a younger woman recently and has been seeing her behind my back for 7 months. I really want to work on things with him we have so ... (180 words)

Past problems caused our break. What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

6 June 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - My fiancé recently ended it with me 6 days ago. Saying out of the blue she wasn't happy. We only got engaged a month and half ago and had been trying unsuccessfully for a baby. A year and half ago her son died at birth and she never come to turns with it and I think now it has ... (101 words)

Is my cousin on the way to an addiction problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2881 days ago

6 June 2016 (F) age 41-50 - Our grandfather was a drunk. The kind that drinks all night long with his friends, then comes home, cleans up and goes to work like nothing ever happened. He was verbally abusive to my grandmother but never to his children, who "only" got to witness his behavior and were always ... (710 words)

Have I ruined things by telling this girl that I'm autistic? And inviting her to have coffee? Things are now awkward between us

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2879 days ago

6 June 2016 (M)

age 26-29 - I told a girl at work who I'm friends with. That I'm autistic and that I sometimes find it difficult to communicate people with people and to read people for example. Before I did a very stupid and foolish thing by asking if she wanted to meet for a coffee as well just as ... (156 words)

Could my longstanding friend be cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2613 days ago

6 June 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - There are times when i feel my longstanding boyfriend must be having an affair judging by his sometime cavalier attitude to mean! Then i feel emotionally exhausted and as if everything i have done has sumply been to prop anothercouple up. I would rather be alone than athir... (77 words)

Should I feel this hurt that he dumped me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2881 days ago

6 June 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Aunts. I had sex without protection with some guy a month ago. Before we had sex he told me that he loves me so i just went with the flow. The next morning he bought(he is working) me morning after pill to prevent the chances of me getting pregnant. Then i had some of... (374 words)

Have I lost my chance? I don't know what I want in life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2879 days ago

6 June 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello , my problem is i dont know what i want in life in an ideal world i would like to get married and have children but i fear doing that . Im 36 and still live at home with my parents my dad isnt well so i help out a lot , i had a girlfriend who i didnt give much time to ... (246 words)

Is it strange that he has no friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

6 June 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of a month says he loves a drink and I notice he always has drink at home and wants to go to the pub every week end. He says it is because his work is so stressful and he doesnt have friends to go out with or talk to. When he's drunk he sends me text messages... (110 words)

Mother's opinion is confusing my life

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2881 days ago

6 June 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - In my early 20s I was diagnosed with Polycystic Ovary Syndrome. My doctor told me it was quite bad and I should be aware that my chances of conceiving are very slim. I made my peace with it and although I know there are options such as IVF and adoption I'm ok with the fact that ... (244 words)

Can I trust this man's motives?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

6 June 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - It's been a while since I have post. I went on a few times with this guy. He tried to kiss me but I shy away. As he has a girlfriend. We held off going out for a while. We started talking again and we are going to the movies next weekend. I am in the process of building a house ... (270 words)

I worry my partner willnot accept my parents

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2873 days ago

6 June 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I hope you can help me with my problem. I live in Canada; divorced and have a 7-year-old daughter. My parents are permanent residents and they travel back and forth. They have been there for me to take care of my daughter while I was in school and after I started working ... (373 words)

Should I attach a sincere apology to each thank you note sent out? I forgot to mail thank notes following our Jan wedding

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2881 days ago

6 June 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i have a dilemma and feedback would be greatly appreciated. I got married in Jan 2016. Our special day was nothing short of perfect from the moment we started planning, right through to the end of our wedding day. After we returned from our honeymoon, my husba... (327 words)

Are his drunk words a red flag or simply a mistake?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2881 days ago

6 June 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm dating someone I met online. He's normally very level headed and very good to me. But yesterday he posted a Facebook status while drunk which bothers me. It said "I f***ing hate it when one can't close out" which I believe he means he couldn't get sex. This was while he was ... (140 words)