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I know he wants children and I don't, so what's the best way to go about ending the marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3052 days ago

15 December 2015 (F age 41-50 - I've been married for 2 years and have been with my husband 8 years before we got married. I never wanted children - he did. I was honest from the start about children- he was upset- understandably but accepted that we wouldn't have any and that he loved me anyway ... (302 words

He's being generous but I don't feel I can accept his gifts and money!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3050 days ago

15 December 2015 (F age 30-35 - I met a guy about 6 months ago. I'm 23 and I work as a bartender while going to school. He is a lot older then me (he's 38). He came into the bar I work one night with some friends and we ended up chatting. He came in the following night and asked for my number. We ended up ... (490 words

I think I'm so bad at sex that I should consult a sex therapist or sex coach! Is it worth it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

15 December 2015 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid It's embarrassing to even say it but i completely suck when it comes to sex, I can't do anything. Had two long relationship, one with ex bf who didn't care much and we hardly had any and everytime I just lie down and he will do his job and go. Next with my ex husba... (184 words

What are signs that someone likes you? I think he likes me

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15 December 2015 (F age 26-29 - I'm 17, and I've never had a boyfriend or girlfriend. This doesn't bother me in the slightest because I'm not an innately sexual person or someone who displays feelings well. I've never asked out anybody that I've really fancied for fear of rejection. There's a boy at colle... (142 words

My master manipulator sister is ruining our wedding plans and our life. Help!

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15 December 2015 (F age 30-35 - My sister is a master manipulator. Over the past year, since getting engaged, not only has she tried to get money out of me for stuff we borrowed, as well as bringing money for family suppers (instead of food), but she also has tried to interfere or put down all wedding ... (303 words

Thinking about going to a sex therapist, or sex counsellor. Will it work? Is it worth this effort?

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15 December 2015 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid It's embarrassing to even say it but i completely suck when it comes to sex, I can't do anything. Had two long relationship, one with ex bf who didn't care much and we hardly had any and everytime I just lie down and he will do his job and go. Next with my ex husba... (184 words

I have a feeling my girfriend might be cheating. Should I break up with her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3053 days ago

15 December 2015 (M age 26-29 - I want to know if my girlfriend of six months is cheating or not. At first, she was all chatty and flirty and quite honestly, all over me. But then she would back off real quick and make some excuse to go home or cut off the date. When I asked if she was playing mind gam... (441 words

Is my Bf's technique the cause of the pain I feel after sex? What needs to change?

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15 December 2015 (F age 26-29 - When my partner uses his finger (we don't use toys or penis) on me, even when I'm really lubricated and it feels good, it sometimes feels a little torn when I use the bathroom once or twice in the few hours after. It doesn't usually hurt during, but I'm not sure why it somet... (99 words

She said sorry about the 3 way kiss, but what should I do? I'm pretty angry

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15 December 2015 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend who I love a lot was out the other night with me and was really drunk and did a threeway kiss with her friend who was a girl and the friends boyfriend. what should i do? she has said sorry and is upset but what should I do im pretty angry... (54 words

Maybe I'm not good looking enough for her? How to get over this?

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15 December 2015 (M age 26-29 - Hello! So basically I've developed some insecurity issues lately because my girlfriend dumped me without explaining why. I tried asking her but it was to no avail she just won't tell me.I really did treat her well, I spent all of my free time with her,even took time out ... (128 words

Did she mean it? Do you think a girl would say this to someone if she didn't mean it?

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15 December 2015 (M age 30-35 - This girl is not exactly a workmate, just a place where I visit every week or so, selling things there. She is also not someone I deal with, she works in another area. Anyhow we chat sometimes and she seems very friendly to me. The other day I came just as she was leaving.... (113 words

Should I call my ex to come hang out for the Holidays?

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15 December 2015 (F age 41-50 - Should I call my ex to come hang out for the Holidays? My ex and I broke up two years ago at the end of Christmas. Each year when the Holidays come around, I find myself thinking of him and missing him. We've never seen each other after our breakup aside from one time during m... (337 words

Is there a possible reason? He's become more affectionate recently

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15 December 2015 (F age 36-40 - My BF of over 3 years had really ramped up the affection recently. He's not the type to talk about feelings AT ALL. He's a very rational and confident person. Last few weeks though he has been so affectionate that it's thrown me! He's almost become slightly needy telling me h... (89 words

Is it bad for me to get mad with him? Or am I justified in feeling this way?

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15 December 2015 (F age 26-29 - I have been with my daughters dad for three years. We've had our ups and downs but have managed to stay together for the most part. Well, in July and August we separated due to him being really different so I packed up and left. We were still being sexually active together even ... (106 words

Is is possible she thought I was breaking up with her? After our rose petal dance?

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15 December 2015 (M age - Am writing again, about what I wrote before, about the rose's, well women are saying to me, that I shouldn't of walk out right after wards, cause she didn't say anything nice to me about it, I've been told, she might of thought, I was breaking up with her, an when she tex me, ... (124 words

Staring at other women, odd porn sites on his phone.... am I wasting my time with him?

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15 December 2015 (F age 51-59 - Hi just wanting some advise really. My boyfriend who I've been seeing for 18 months had a porn site on his phone history a while back. I didn't go snooping he had handed me the phone himself. I guess he had forgotten it was in his history anyway he said he didn't know how it g... (533 words

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