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Archived questions from: 27 December, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I try this blind date with a woman I'm not sure of to experience my first lesbian experience?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

27 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupids, i am a woman who experienced sex before with a man, then while with the man asked him to experience threesome (2 female one guy) and he refused then accepted, but we never got the chance to do it because we broke up. now i am eager to meet up with a lesbian,... (187 words)

Where do I stand in this? FWB but I get no respect and he insults me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

27 December 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Im a first year student who has got into a friends with benefits relationship with a guy who doesn't respect me. We had drunken sex in the first couple of weeks of university a few times, we then didn't see each other for a while but now it has started up again. We only h... (201 words)

Just online friends? But then he restarted being flirty. How should I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

27 December 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - This is really very confusing but please bear with me. There is this guy who I have been chatting to for over 6 months, he is like my best friend but we have never met (we have discussed it, just not really gotten to it as I live 2 hours away by car). We chat by text eve... (726 words)

Worth pursuing? Or should I let this online flirtation go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

27 December 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been taking to a decent guy online for the last 2 weeks. We seem to hit it off really well and within days were talking on the phone every day for hours on end. However I was the first person he started talking to as he had only subscribed to the site on that day. ... (367 words)

Is she messing with my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

27 December 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been in a long term relationship for years. A few months ago, a girl started working the same place as me. She's also in a relationship. We get on like best friends, we've told each other almost everything, some things we were too unsure to tell our own partners... (300 words)

What's the best way to call it quits?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

27 December 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - My question is: Is it acceptable to split up with a woman via email or over the phone. I have been dating for someone for about 4 months but it isn't going anywhere and I would like to end it. I want to do it properly in the right way. I was going to send an email explaining ... (230 words)

Can't get him out of my head but is he really interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

27 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy 3 years ago at a program and we became good friends. We both had a 'thing' for each other but both were committed to different people so didn't act on it. We lost in touch after the program ended until last year when I got back on social media and got in touch ... (513 words)

She's into me one week then ignores me the next week. Why so many mood swings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

27 December 2015 (M)

age 51-59 - My partner exhibits some peculiar behavior that I find rather frustrating and hard to figure out. We have a great time together for the most part, and I really value her companionship and our overall relationship. At the same time, she goes off on these weird emotional ta... (305 words)

Lost virginity may wreck upcoming marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

27 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I am from Nigeria. and i want to become a virgin again. I don't know if you can help me with what wil make me to become a virgin again? My wedding is coming up and don't want my husband to be mad at me. Please do help me. I do want your reply as soon as possible.... (58 words)

How can I get my husband to realize that his mother is taking advantage of us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

27 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have been married 6 and a half years (together 8) and our marriage has been wonderful. He's absolutely my best friend and soul mate! However, his mother has been a real issue.... He was not raised by his mother, nor has he ever been close to her. My MI... (657 words)

Is it wrong not to call when you get their number?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

27 December 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - I've seen sites saying to get as many girls phone numbers as you can. To give you experience and therefore confidence etc. Other sites say it's cruel to get numbers and not call. On the other hand, girls sometimes give out false numbers or play other games that can make a g... (58 words)

How do I attract and choose the right men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

27 December 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I just recently ended my 3rd serious relationship. We were long distance and he was very selfish and emotionally abusive. However, the pattern remains the same. I meet a guy, we get attached very quickly, after a month or so he says he loves me, then brings up marriage, and... (270 words)

How do I deal with an interfering mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

27 December 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid, I am going to be 18 on the 1st of January. My parents still interfere in my life so much. I have been in a relationship for 8 months now. My boyfriend was over for dinner yesterday and we had a little argument after dinner (just the two of us, not with my parents). ... (277 words)

How do I tell if he's being honest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

27 December 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy like about 2 months ago and he seemed interested in me and I was too, but when he would tell me to let him know to hang out he always had things to do so I would get upset. I've asked him if he's single and he said he doesn't have a gf, but recently I found out ... (157 words)

Would I stand out if I go solo for a meal and maybe to see a band or a comedy performance on New Year's Eve?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

27 December 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - For the last five years I've been single and primarily friendless so I've stayed in watching tv trying to convince myself I wasn't bored. This year I'm still single, but my friends are coupled or will be out of town and I just can't stand the thought of yet another new year... (162 words)

Is paying for sex the best option, when a guy is 25 year old virgin, and has a porn addiction?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

27 December 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a male virgin who's never kissed a girl and I have a porn addiction. I watch it everyday, multiple times a day, and of course masturbate like crazy. It becomes a compulsive need to get home from work, or any social gathering and start looking up porn. I want to experien... (227 words)

He's nice and he's flirty. But is he really just a player ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

27 December 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been speaking to this guy for a while on snapchat, he used to live nearby but has moved away (apparently only for a year but I am unsure). I never knew him when he lived here but we went to the same school. I just never seen him as he was a few years above. When at o... (233 words)

What can I say or do? My mother in law is driving me crazy and bankrupting us at the same time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

27 December 2015 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a 42 year old male who has been married for more than 20 years. I have always viewed my mother-in-law as meddlesome, but harmless. However, over the last 7 years (she is mid-70s now) she is experiencing signs of dementia. She can't pay her bill on time, she loses track ... (755 words)

What is the likelihood of this working, considering that I wonder if we are intellectually incompatible?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

27 December 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - This may end up being a bit lengthy so I apologise in advance if there turns out to be a lot of reading to be done. My current significant other and I have been together for 1 year and roughly 3 months, however we have known each other for about 17 years now. He is actually ... (1564 words)

My second cousin wants to become my boyfriend but I'm nervous. What do you guys think?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

27 December 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Okay so the past two weeks me and my 2nd cousin have been talking.. A lot and flirting and we have a thing. He's a few years older than me so growing up we didn't talk but I'm 17 now. I saw him over Christmas but we had to pretend we weren't talking. In a few days we are ... (102 words)

What can I do about the guilt I feel over the loss of my virginity to a man I met online?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

27 December 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Feeling guilty and dirty I am a 25 years old guy who happens to be gay. I was not out with anybody, even with my family. I was still a virgin till last summer. I moved to a new place for my work in June. For the first few weeks I were homesick and were not happy with... (365 words)

He didn't invite me to show his friend around the city. Was I overreacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

27 December 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - So my bf has a friend coming over from California. We live in Texas and this guy came yesterday. I live by myself and I know the lonely times sometimes are just annoying me. Anyway my bf told me today that he will come and his friend to my place to just say hi around 10-11pm. I ... (250 words)

I like her, but want to move on. How?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

27 December 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm currently seeing this girl who I've been speaking to for a few months now. We aren't in a relationship but just speaking and seeing each other. We partially speak every day and see each other at least every week. Problem is, she is still not over my best friend wh... (200 words)