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Archived questions from: 9 March, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Fewer HJs are making him feel unloved.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

9 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have Head Job issues. Badly. Please help me work out what the sam hill is going on! So ive been with my guy for 15 years, we have always had really unhealthy verbal fights, always. But we have ALWAYS had a Rock On sex life, I have always loved to give him head, no issues a... (275 words)

My boyfriend has become a possessive maniac!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

9 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid,I'm starting to think my boyfriend of 3 years is very possessive.He has just started the same college as me this semester and I thought it would be fun but instead its been hell! First thing, he started getting upset that my female friends were always around us ... (408 words)

Is it wrong for me to ask boyfriend what he was doing when he asks if he can call me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

9 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a small thing, but it's driving me crazy and I need some outside perspective. I am in an LDR and we talk on the phone every night before bed usually for about a half hour to an hour, sometimes longer. We both sometimes have to hang up for a minute - another call, food ... (217 words)

Do all men cheat if given the chance?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

9 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hmm, I'm getting a little cynical-do all men cheat (emotionally/physically) if they get the chance and don't think they'll get caught?? This is the impression I'm getting from DearCupid, from celebrities, from my friends, and I don't like it. I hope it's not true, but am I ... (53 words)

Guy is sending me mixed signals and I can't tell if he's serious or not

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

9 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey agony aunts. I hav been seeing a guy for about two months. We are both 30 years old. At 1st I wasnt sure if I wanted to hang out with him but somehow, he kept on sending little messages on facebook until i gave him my number and we went out. (i have known for a while as a ... (479 words)

I never seen the break up coming and now ex texts me 5 months later to tell me about a movie? What gives?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

9 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up a little over 5 months ago. It was a very painful breakup due to the fact that his decision to end our relationship was compeltly out of the blue. I didn't see it coming, neither did his family, friends or even his co-workers (everyone was genuinely shocked ... (435 words)

I like him, his brother likes me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4430 days ago

9 March 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - There is a guy who I liked and then his brother liked me and asked me out so I was chatting to the guy I. Liked and then he said now I see what my brother likes in you! What does that mean??... (43 words)

I've a massive crush on my teacher and I don't know how to deal with it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

9 March 2012 (?) age 26-29 - I've had this problem with my teacher at school. I've been having feelings for him for like a year and i don't know how to deal with it. I'm 14 and i've been having dreams where i have kissed my teacher, he's only 20 something and i know i can't tell him or anything because... (389 words)

She even flirts better than me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

9 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a very serious problem – I’m insanely jealous of a girl I know who is hotter than me, smarter than me… She is successful in everything she does, but absolutely EVERYTHING! She is the national champion at Math, she competes in Physics, she’s good at languages… She plays ... (191 words)

Do you stay and fight for love? Or if love has gone, should you leave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

9 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel like I'm falling out of love with my bf and, as this has never happened to me before, I need advice: do you stay and fight for love? Or if love has gone, should you leave? For background: we've been together 18 months, don't live together, but are looking for plac... (637 words)

He looks at me alot but I can't tell if he's interested or not?

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9 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a gay guy. I met this guy, and we have been just friends for about two years. He is 21 and I am 30. I have known him for some time before but one day he introduced himself to me. I have seen hm looking at me a couple of times, but don't know for sure if he is interested. ... (188 words)

How do I bring up to my wife that I know she's using her vibrator rather than having sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

9 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm married with young kids and have been with my wife for 10 years. Over the last few years our sex life has become almost non existant which we put donw to the pressures of having young children. Recently I have discovered that my wife is using a vibrator and it appears she ... (116 words)

I want to leave abusive spouse but don't want to end up in a shelter!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

9 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi agony aunts, I'm in need of some help. I am married with three children and I am living with a physically and emotionally abusive spouse. He has cheated on me in the past several times and he said he would change but he has not. I want to leave but I don't want my children ... (98 words)

Am I wrong because on our 1st official date I turned down giving oral sex?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

9 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, So i've been seeing this guy but not for that long. We've hung out briefly and last night he took me out on an official date. After dinner we left and went to a park to check out the view and went back to the car. He kept asking if I wanted to go back to his plac... (230 words)

Why does my b/f want a threeseome with 2 girls but won't even consider 2 guys?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

9 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi so i need some good advise ive been with my bf 3 yrs now he watches porn which is not a problem i watch it with him but he likes to watch group sex and said it really turns him on then the other night he asked me if i would have a 3 some with him an another girl i said what ... (189 words)

Is there any way to make sure you fall in love and stay in love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

9 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My on-again-off-again boyfriend is coming over this weekend. We've been "off" for a little less than two months now. My concern is that every time we get together after a few weeks apart, the passion we have for each other is intense. But then over the course of a few more ... (142 words)

Is it wrong that I don't want my husband's nephew around anymore?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

9 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my husbands nephew is down right disrespectful and disgusting and rude. he talks like a sailor, and spits chewing tabbaco and tells his friends he want to have sex w/ me. i hate it when he comes to our house to help my husband work, he not only is a bad influence on our kids ... (159 words)

I have been paying for everything while he saves his money...should I leave if he doesn't follow through on his promise?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

9 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I havent been wed very long but me and my hubby both work, we both earn about the same plus I have outgoings and he doesnt. The problem is is that I pay for everything and and its been this way all the time. before I met him I had savings. I could afford clothes and perfume and ... (180 words)

Do I stay with my boyfriend or give my ex another chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

9 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, My question isn't a dire circumstance as most questions on this site often are. It is just a confusing situation. About a month ago I was in school in Indiana, I began dating and met a wonderful man (lets call him Dan). He has a job, he has an apartment, a car... (437 words)

My g/f has had 35 plus partners and I know 4 of them!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

9 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend of 10years has had about 35previous partners an i can't stop thinking about it and 4of them i know. i have these feelings of anger alot i still even think theres more an she is lying an theres a chance she cheated with 2 or 3 aswell im 29 an she is 37 but she was ... (170 words)

I never told her how I feel but I still love her, how do I talk to her again? Should I even bother if she is in love with someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4430 days ago

9 March 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi....!! I m a boy of 15 yrs old... 1 yr before I was reading in a residential school.... I loved a girl.. In the same hostel.... We were friends for 2 months.. After that I felt that I was in love with her...... After some time I heard from my friends that she loves me too.... ... (144 words)

What is he really saying when a guy says he's not ready to be in a relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

9 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy and I know for sure he likes me but he says he's not ready to be in a serious relationship because he broke up with his girlfriend 2 months ago. He said that I'm really beautiful and he's given a lot of thought about us. What does it actually mean wh... (277 words)

She's been dating him and me for almost 4 years, now she says she wants me. Is she lying?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

9 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm so confused right know I've been sorta dating this girl now for almost four years now and I am madly in love with her but she also has a boyfriend of three years. And she was always sleeping around with other guys and then lieing to me about it even though I've walked in ... (165 words)

Could I get pregnant on the last day of my period?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

9 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm sixteen years old. Last month, it was the very last day of my period and there was hardly any blood but I was still spotting and I gave my boyfriend oral sex. He came in my mouth and I swallowed it and continued to suck him off. He pulled his pants up and we were done, ... (134 words)

Pregnancy Test Came Up Negative Instantly - Too Quickly to Be Accurate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

9 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I just took a pregnancy test for the first time ever...it was the CVS equivalent of the FirstResponse one, the kind that shows a blue stripe in one circle if you are not pregnant and in 2 circles if you are. It says the results can show as early as 2 minutes after taking the ... (299 words)

I think I'm in love with my currently platonic best friend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

9 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Let me just start by saying how horrible at the dating game I am. I'm a high school senior girl, and I have yet to have a single official relationship or even kiss a boy. I've had plenty of guys like me over the years, and the farthest I've gone is a few dates, and then I ... (766 words)

He dated to me to get to a friend. Now he wants to date me again. Is he just using me to get back at her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

9 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. There is this guy and in around October we started dating for a short while. It turns out he only dated me to get to one of my friends and they have dated in and off the past couple months. I've. Liked him on and off during that time period. He and my friend are over for ... (109 words)

Does he still want to be with me or should I give him space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

9 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I met a really nice guy about three weeks ago and we started hanging out. He is 18 and I am 16 and my parents have a huge problem with age differences and so I warned him about it. Things were going really well in our relationship until he asked me out. I REALLY wanted ... (194 words)

What if I gain weight and my bf isn't attracted to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

9 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am turning 21 soon and yes I am sexually active with my bf but we do use condoms every single time and I just had my period like a week ago so I know I'm not pregnant. I just want to know why I'm soooo hungry all the time now. It's been like this for the past week or two and ... (127 words)