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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why does this girl tell me that she masturbates?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

18 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Please don't laugh I'm 23 I have a friend. And this girl. She will text me randomly or tell me randomly that she masterbated. Like I'm confused. Why would a girl tell a guy she masterbated? Is that good for me? Or bad that she tells me this... (61 words)

How can I get pregnant faster?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I got my first depo shot in December, it is now march, therefor I should be coming off of the depo. I want to conceive but I have read that it takes months or even years to become pregnant. So I would like to know if I have had Only one shot and I am healthy can I become ... (83 words)

Will we start a relationship soon? his mother was not happy I gave him a hickey!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 March 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - dear cupid it has been a week and i finally talked to my crush who i gave a hickey to by accident. i called him i asked him how his has been and hes like i have been good and then i asked how his mother was because his mother didnt like that i gave him a hickey i understa... (166 words)

I long for a baby! Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This isnt a serious problem ive always liked kids, but i turned 23 and all of a sudden started longing for a baby, suddenly its all i can think about and its made worse by the fact that i have a sudden influx of nieces and nephews. We're going to start trying after we get marr... (103 words)

Are we in a serious relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everybody! so i am studying/working abroad right now (still got 3 months to go), and a month ago i went bk home for a holiday. on my holiday i met up with this guy i had been chatting on fb with, and we really clicked. he said that if i promise not to break his heart he... (253 words)

Nervous about my first kiss!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Im nervous about my first kiss, I've had plenty of chances to kiss people but I just get so nervous and back out. I'm going to meet the guy this weekend and he wants to kiss me.... (37 words)

How can I get completely over my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - It's been 2 years since we broke up and i can't get over him.. We were together for almost 2 years.. He was my first love,my first long,serious relationship,he was everything to me,we loved each other,we went abroad to study together,we were there for each other.. But he was ... (140 words)

How do I convince my conscious that things are over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I think I am having problems moving on after a divorce of a year now. I have dreams about my ex in which I'm usually just trying to chat with her in a private place to see what's going on in her life. Other times the dreams are me missing things from my past, like the home we ... (223 words)

She said her feelings had changed. should I cut contact?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I was in a relationship with a girl for five months. Last thursday, she broke up with me, telling me she didn't know why but that her feelings had changed. I am slowly coming to terms with this, but I am still very much in love with her. I have deleted/thrown away ... (148 words)

I feel badly that I pushed him away because I was having doubts!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, My name is stella,Please help me with your advice. I met this man online dating,we have been out on two dates so far.We seem to like each other and get on well.But on our second date i pushed him away,because i kept having doubts about him.Even though he has to... (135 words)

I'm afraid of talking to girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i am 18 years old. i am from a village. recently i have moved to city for ma bachlors degree. i am really affraid of talking to girls. whenever i start a talk i become nervous and sweaty and just cant carry on the conversation and maybe thats why i dont have a single female ... (83 words)

What the heck is wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Sooo, I know not everyone believes in exclusivity. I do though. Can some one tell me why this is driving me so crazy??? I had a boyfriend, my first kiss and all, when I was 17. Fine. So we were 17, it would be unrealistic to expect anything serious right? Agreed. However, ... (1410 words)

I love him, but I left on a bad note with him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I moved away from my home town 3 years ago and returned at the beginning of March. I had been in love with the same guy for eight years. I never stopped thinking about him when I moved. My first day back at school last friday, I didn't see him but I passed his house on my way ... (162 words)

Should I sit next to him next time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 March 2012 (?) age 26-29 - Hi everyone I hope all of the agony aunts have been doing well :) So last week, I came across my crush after lunch. He was sitting down all by himself as usual. I wanted to sit next to him and try talking to him a little but I got nervous(naturally) Becuase since I kn... (174 words)

Is he just covering up his temper?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and a half. When it got to our year point stuff really started getting messed up. In the begining of our relationship he was so sweet and romantic, we basically fell head over heals really fast. But then after some tim... (208 words)

How much time should I give her to get past a death in her family?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 March 2012 (M)

age - I've been dating a woman (46) for 4 weeks when her younger brother suddenly died. She and her family are a mess. She's hardly called or written but when she wrote last, she said she wants me in her life but if I didn't want to wait for her she would understand. she can't give a ... (94 words)

I'm dying to introduce myself to her, but don't know how?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - There is a girl who works close to my work who I see pretty much every time I pop in there on my lunch. We've never spoken, but our glances have met a couple of times and to be honest i'd love to get to know her, to see where it goes. I know her name, and know she went to... (187 words)

Think I'm falling for her but don't want to hurt the friendship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 March 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I dont know whats happening to me, i have just got out of a relationship. I dont know how but i think i am now developing feelings for my childhood friend who is my best friends sister. I've known her since i was a child and she is one of my best friends, she is 15 and i am 17. ... (277 words)

Now that I'm showing an interest this guy is backing off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

- I dont know what the deal is with this guy. We met a couple of months back, swapped numbers and got on really well. But then he started to really come on strong like texting all the time and stuff and sometimes I was really busy so couldnt reply straight away and he would just ... (198 words)

I know leaving him is a good idea but the thought of being alone scares me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a total of three years. He has cheated, I only know of about 6 girls but I don't know how many times or who else, one of which was one of my closest friends so I cannot trust him around my friends. He has never told me, I always end up ... (780 words)

A cologne to turn my girlfriend on?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 March 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Guys, This question is for women to answer and men are welcome too :D. Do you know a specific perfume that i can use to turn my girlfriend on and really worked for you? ... (45 words)

Is she a crush? A friend? Could it be more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

18 March 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - First, I want to thank you in advance for helping me out. So there is this girl that I think has a crush on me. It started about six months ago when she came by my work and hung out for a couple of hours. Before this there were no indications that she liked me. On this nigh... (634 words)

What does all of this treatment with an ex mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for a total of three years, in this space of time we have broken up twice because I have been unhappy. We started out pretty bad- He went out with someone else when we were on a break and then led her on for another 4 months, he had a one night ... (834 words)

Should a guy in a comitted relationship be texting another girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What's going to far? My question is this.. if you have a girlfriend and a girl from high school or something texts you or sees you out and tries talking to you what is going too far? In the texting thought is even texting back a bad idea and asking for trouble my opinion is ... (93 words)

My boyfriend wants to go to a strip club and I'm not sure how to handle it

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year now and he is going away with some friends in august. I know it is awhile away but lastnight we were all sitting around a fire and his buddies brought up going to a strip club while they were gone for there weekend trip. I ... (186 words)

I don't get the option of having children but my B/f still expects me to keep up a relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship with a guy with 2 sons who live with him. I don't have children of my own. He doesn't want more children. He wants to move to put the children to a new school and he has a found a job in the area, which is 2 hours drive away. He wants me to go too and ... (263 words)

How long should a hand job last?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - How long do handjods usually last when the guy is 17? And how shud I clean it up when im done? And how much will there be?... (27 words)

Is a handjob painful for a guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - last night me and my bf were making out and feeling eachother u. I had my shirt off and he was feeling my breats down my bra I guess I got excited and went down andbegan to rub down there. It was my first time doing this so I was curious. So I kept rubbing through his shorts ... (139 words)

How far do most 17-year-olds go with each other after 5 months of being in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so my boyfriend and I are 17 and have been going out now for about 5 months and this is our first relationship. He says he just wants it to be comfortable for me and he will be happy which is very sweet but i'm just curious. How far do most 17 year olds go in that time span ... (90 words)

How could he move on so quick?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend of five and a half years called it quit a month and two weeks ago. One month after we separated he post pics on Facebook of him and his new girlfriend. My heart hurt in a place I never felt before. I don't know whether to move on with my life or wait for ... (104 words)

Jealous of not having "female" experiences due to looks

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I sometimes feel as if I'm less of a woman because I'm more on the side of Plain Jane/Ugly, and thus do not have a lot of the experiences that other women seem to bond over. I sit with a group of women at lunch, and lately at least one of them comes in complaining abou... (367 words)

Is it fair of me to ask my B/f to keep on using condoms, to "save" ourselves for our wedding night?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'd kind of planned on waiting until marriage to have sex, but then I met my first boyfriend. We're an LDR couple and I lost my virginity to him late last year. Don't get me wrong, I don't regret it at all, it felt so right when it happened! We're very serious about each other ... (254 words)

I finally broke with him and he already has somebody new.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi just need some advice how do you get over the pain and heartbreak of splitting with someone me and my boyfriend were together over a year I really loved him but he treated me terribly he only came around once a week wanting sex he would go to sleep then get up and go we ... (104 words)

How come there are different rules for him and different rules for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I have been dating my boyfriend for little over a year. Everything's good, I love him and he loves me. But one thing that I don't know why it bothers me is when he smokes pot, it seems to be happening more often. Here's the thing I hadn't smoked pot in 2 or 3 years ... (469 words)

Why am I the only one without love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So have been in three relationships. I am 17 right now. I would say that the last relationship was true love. I know this sounds stupid saying I am so young and I already experienced true love. I never felt anything like that with him. Anyway he broke up with me. I've been over ... (173 words)

I saw him about to kiss another girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been dating a guy for sometime now. He claims he loves me but sometimes im uncertain about it. One of his friends told me that he does.Yesterday, I saw him closely with a lady, They were too close as if they were about to kiss When I saw them I pretended not seeing it my ... (107 words)

Is this masturbation pattern normal?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

18 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, I'm 17 and i have a problem. I masturbate every night. I constantly think of my gf, especially of the days we have sex. I went on a college tour and i didn't masturbate. I went on a trip and i didn't do it. Only at night when im most relaxed. I feel like this is a bad ... (71 words)

Insecurity issues -- she cheated and said he was her best ever

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

18 March 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone Now I have a big insecurity issue to deal with and it usually end up with me feeling unwanted by my fiancé Long story short We got into a fight we broke up I tried getting back then found out that a guy that used to ONLY give her rides to my house got he... (436 words)

My cousin has been gloomy since I broke up with him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Some time ago I fooled around with my cousin. I can't exactly call it fooling around because at the time we were both pretty serious about it. I know that dating between cousins is probably a big taboo but I honestly didn't care. He's a little younger than me, but he was honest ... (451 words)

Isn't this enough proof that men just aren't attracted to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am looking for ANYONE'S opinion on this. It would be much appreciated. Im running short on time, and I can clarify on ANYTHING. Sorry if this post is a bit disorganized. I am a 23 year old female with no dating experience. Honestly, I really hate talking about myself, be... (496 words)

Men, would you cheat on your partner if you knew you wouldn't get caught?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - This is a question for the men that have been married for quite some time or are in a long term relationship. Are you truely happy/satisfied with your wife sexually? I was reading an article the other day about "spicing" your relationship up. One guy admitted to liking when h... (337 words)

My boyfriend is upset that I lost my virginity to another during our break up

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a long distance relationship because he is goes to college in washington and i live in florida. So we live on oppsite sides of the country. He is turning 20 this year and im 18. We were together for over a year when we broke up. He just stopped calling and replying... (421 words)

He unfriended me, and I found him on another site and sent him a message

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 March 2012 (?) age 30-35 - I have fallen in love with a guy I met online. I have only spoken to him online. I really liked him and a few weeks ago I wrote to him on IM and he asked me would I write to him in a few days. He said if we kept writing to each other everyday we would get bored with each oth... (125 words)

I just want to kiss this older man at work, Just Once!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 March 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this man at work who has really touched me..not sexually but mentally. He reminded me to value myself. I'm dating someone but I have moments where I doubt that man...anyway, this man is much older. But, I can tell he's attracted to me but he's been a gentleman and ... (142 words)