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writes: i have been seeing my girlfriend for 6 years but for reasons we only go out once a month to a hotel on a thursday (because we cant be seen together)our sex life is great but when she cant make it on thursday ive asked her to change to a tuesday (her only other available night off) she wont because its her bingo night. im thinking of packing her up as i think she would rather play bingo than go out with mewhat would you do in my possisition
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reader, Toria +, writes (22 October 2006):
 Is she in a relationship already?
You have been with someone for 6 years and only see her once a week at a hotel how is that a relationship? It's more like a secret affair and if after 6 years your still just meeting once a week in a hotel there really isn't much chance of you becoming anything more than that.
Personally if I wanted to be with someone I would want to be seen with him and I deffinantly would give up bingo to see him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2006): I could answer this question more properly if I had the answer to one question: why cna't you be seen with each other? Is one (or both) of you cheating? If that is the case, I never support cheating and I think you should break off your relationship with this woman for good.
But, if I'm totally off and there's another logical reasons, then here's what I've got. I pose to you two opinons.
You really want to KICK HER OUT of your life because of bingo?? A six year relationship, let's see, that's.... 72 lovely Thursday evenings together? How often do these "sorry, I have Bingo" occur?
On the other hand.
It's only Bingo. Have you told her how much it upsets you and you value your time together? She's got three other Bingo nights a month!
That's all I've got for you today.
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reader, carlyuk  +, writes (21 October 2006):
 this doesn't sound like much of a relationship and it sounds like its based on the sexual side of things i think that she is using this busy bingo night as an excuse not to see you i would advise to dump her and find someone who u can be seen with a have a proper relationship based on truth,communication,love and sex aswell but nt as the main aspect thts nt love its sex thres a difference plz let me know how things work out!!! xxx
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reader, camille +, writes (21 October 2006):
 I'd say without knowing the reasons why you only see each other once a week in a hotel, I couldn't advise you suffieciently. 6 years of that? It's very suspicious. If you are the reason it's a secret and keeping it hidden, why should she change her night? She'd rather keep her regular plans than stay IN with you you mean?
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