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Is my penis big enough for sex?

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Question - (21 October 2006) 21 Answers - (Newest, 22 February 2010)
A male , anonymous writes:

hi would my penis just under 6 inches erect be large enough for sex? also which position is best for a penis which has a smaller girth?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2010):

I'm 5.5 inches and i have a girl in my neibourhood begging to have sex with me (and she is not ugly) lol

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A male reader, Cam768 United States +, writes (12 February 2010):

Man u are talking to a sex expert and although i dont have a small girth, i hace shared my girlfriend with those who do, so the best position has to be the women on top.

Also dont worry about anything, your dick is quite big!

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A male reader, Good advice! United Kingdom +, writes (25 November 2008):

In my reserch i have found somthing quite amazing and has taken me a while to actuly admit to myself.

Men put each others penis size down simply for the the fact that... they are scaired!(im not crazy)

It is perfectly understandable seing as somtimes there is almost an air of expectation in the bedroom and as a man you want to show what you can do.

Men confront fear by puting eachother down and bragging about what they have done in the past, if you have been to war and seen the men about to go to the front line, they are usuly doing that and i spose its just a way of coping with the suposedly tricky task of doing a "good job".

You have apsolutly nothing to worry about, jus lay back and let the magic flow. ;)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008):

well it is the motion of the ocean but my friend you cant get to europe in a row boat or a space ship (well and survive the landing that is).

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A female reader, Cherriepie United States +, writes (6 February 2008):

Cherriepie agony auntHi hunny!

Yes for the record your penis is average and its ok. But its still true that some of us prefer guys that are bigger….sorry I’m one of them! Please don’t hate me...I’m just being honest. Not everybody is perfect for everybody. You need to find a girl who is right for you and doesn’t mind your size.

Even if you don’t feel confident with your penis, you can always compensate in other ways. You can learn to give a girl good foreplay and oral pleasures, using your hands, fingers and tongue. Of course you can also use sex toys…there are dildos out there that can more than compensate for your size. But I’ve known a few guys that were so good in oral that the size of their penis didn’t matter. If a guy can make me cum a few times before going in with his penis he’s already made me happy.

But like others have said its not all about the size but how you use it. If your performance is weak, and you cum too quickly, that’s a big turn-off. You got to be mr macho in bed and keep a girl rockin to make her happy. Once a girl’s opened her legs for you, she’s already approved of you and your size…so just get in there give her what she wants.

I hope this helps.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2007):

Yes indeed. A 6-incher will do the trick. Heck, even a 4-incher will do just fine. If you get under 2 inches, that would be another matter entirely

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2007):

well i think that your penis is way big enough and the missionary position would be good for you and your partner

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007):

Well penis size is not what matters most. You only need to know how to sustain the ercetion in order to satisfy your woman. A big and rushing penis which finshes before the scoring line is useless, the penis size is just fine.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007):

if the woman complains about your size just get her one of those machines! lol

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007):

hey guy, u are just perfect, remember God created u perfect. All u have to do is wait patiently for the rigth person; u'll be amazed that ur size is just perfect for her size. Regards

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2007):

well if she's not happy with it, u will kno. plus its all about the way u werk it.

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A male reader, LK India +, writes (12 March 2007):

I'm 21. I think my one is 4 - 4.5, Is it enough for sex ?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2006):

Why all boys are maniacs with their pennis size?i am not.should i worry about my pennis' size?it's 5.5 inches high and 4 inches fat.by i do not care at all.i also have to tell u that i am 14 to 15 years old and i haven't intercourse with a girl yet.is this normal?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2006):

Hi You sound average to me which is a good thing mate anyway what does it matter? All girls havent got a big virgina so you will give them a good time!You just need to be with the right person

there are other ways too as well as intercourse Make sure your of age and in a commited loving relationship before you Make love to a girl for the first time you could start by doing sexual things If your partners comfortuble like oral sex and fingering obvoisly make sure they want to though Dont worry you are normal! :)

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A female reader, bonym United Kingdom +, writes (22 October 2006):

bonym agony auntThese sort of questions amaze me, its as if we are to say something like, "well in order to have intercourse, you need to be a certain number of inches etc etc." I am not one to answer these sorts of questions, because I see no point, but let me say friend, God created us all with various body parts for various different things, and He certainly didnt say well only men with a penis 8 inches or more can have sex and those less cant and even vice versa. I think you know the answer to your question. xXx

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A female reader, Toria +, writes (22 October 2006):

Toria agony auntYou are the avarage size for sex and believe it or not on most occasions women will tell you that avarage size is better as it hits the more important spots and is comfortable in all positions therefore giving you more choice on positions to have sex in.

Good luck :o)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2006):

Not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean my friend. Dont worry about size - Remember that good things come in small packages. (BTW 6inches isnt too small, its about average - dont believe all that your mates tell you)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2006):

Well, here is a technique you can usr to make sex a little more enjoyable for you, during foreplay insert one finger in her vagina, and stimulate her with it, the vagina kind of constricts around the smaller object so that when you slide your big manhood in it will feel really nice...Also, I find that the man on top with her legs up high around your shoulders even feels really nice with a shorter penis...also if you put your knees under her butt (sort of spread them out around her hips) and still be on top of her thrusting you will most likely be at a perfect angle to hit her G spot inside the top wall of her vagina, which is very sensual and erotic for the woman...sometimes shorter is better than longer for this, so you have nothing to feel bad about here fella.

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (21 October 2006):

Yos agony auntTotally fine, you are average size. Not sure where you are getting your stats from but don't believe most surveys as they are done by men measuring themselves...

And whatever you do, don't compare yourself to what you see in porn. Those men are recruited specifically because they have large penisis. Its like going to a basketball game and then measuring your height based on only looking at the players...

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A male reader, Abacadaba United Kingdom +, writes (21 October 2006):

Abacadaba agony auntnot the size of hammer that matters is the nail your throwing it at or its not the size its what you do with it that counts. Your fine, your about average.

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A female reader, xLEAHx United Kingdom +, writes (21 October 2006):

xLEAHx agony auntThere is nothing wrong with the size of your penis.. and so many guys are paranoid about this.. the average size is normally around 5-6 an a half inches errect..and many guys think they should have one 7" and over because they think thats the average size ..but its so not true..as the saying goes 'ITS THE THE QUALITY AND NOT THE QUANTITY' any sexual possition is best for you as you have nothing to worry about..so be proud of your manhood :)

xLEAHx

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