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writes: I love my bf a lot and i take him seriuosly he loves me too,but off late he gets irritated fast and shout at me 4 reasons known best to him, the next day he makes up to me and i forget it but this keeps happening all the time.i dont want to lose him and at times i feel iam desperate but i really cant play the "play it hard to get" game will he ever understand me? i get depressed really fast and he knows it too y is he still doing this to me?
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reader, Toria +, writes (22 October 2006):
 Sometimes when something is going on in peoples lives they lash out at the closest person to them in this case thats you, you need to talk to him and explain how this is making you feel, he has no right in making you feel low and depressed because something is going on with him that is getting him down or he is feeling the pressure from.
Good luck :o)
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (21 October 2006):
 maybe he is not totally understanding how it upsets you, there formaybe speaking to him and telling him how it affects you. but you will find mainly men do get grumpy and moody quite quickly with out realiseing what theyve done they snap and shout. then after when realiseing they feel really guilty. is he stressed from anything at all? like work or family or what ever else?! if he is give him time to release his anger then youll be ok. but maybe in future when you know his about to get angry any sign possibel that shows it walk in to a different room so he can not take the anger out on you. i would advice a very serious talk communication is always the way to a sucesfull ralationship.
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