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Is my ex-husband calling because he wants to get together again? Or what?

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Question - (9 July 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 November 2007)
A female , *tlcrds writes:

I got married when I was 20. I am now 35. He was 20 as well and now is 36. We divorced in 1999 after eight years of marriage. Both of us had other interests, mine happend to be a female.

At time I thought I was lesbian. Well to make this short, he has remarried for the fourth time. This is his wife's third marriage.

This past Easter I told him I loved him and he responded back. I had also told him later on that I wanted to try again if his new marriage did not work out. But yet he calls me about things he already knows the answer to, such as he called to ask if our daughter was still allergic to a med. He knows the answer.

Sometimes I think he calls me and asks me dumb questions just to talk. What is he thinking?

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A female reader, buck United States +, writes (24 November 2007):

I have an ex,also...23 years and three older kids..i still have a lot of feelings for her and she me.But i am married and want to end this one and get back with her.I married someone too immature and too young..gad two beautiful kids with her..they understand it all..I just hope we can get back together before we both die..i love her and she does me..the divorce was a mistake..she was under stress or something at the time..

I dont care what anyone else thinks...tim

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A female reader, buck United States +, writes (24 November 2007):

I have an ex,also...23 years and three older kids..i still have a lot of feelings for her and she me.But i am married and want to end this one and get back with her.I married someone too immature and too young..gad two beautiful kids with her..they understand it all..I just hope we can get back together before we both die..i love her and she does me..the divorce was a mistake..she was under stress or something at the time..

I dont care what anyone else thinks...tim

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A female reader, stlcrds +, writes (9 July 2006):

stlcrds is verified as being by the original poster of the question

do you think he is looking for happiness since this is his fourth marriage in seven years? do you think his marriage will work out?

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A female reader, Dr Ashanti +, writes (9 July 2006):

Dr Ashanti agony auntI think he still has feelings for you and is calling you just to talk to you, he probabaly asks you silly questions like that just to hear your voice, or maybe he knows his new wife would not want him to be phoning you just to talk to you so he phones you to hear your voice, I think he still loves his new wife but he also loves you. He doesn't know what to do, whether to finish with his wife for you or not. He is confused too. I hope this has helped you and if not, mail me. I will respond very soon as i am on here alot. Good luck! x

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