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writes:PLEASE HELP ME! I cannot let this go and need your help!There is this boy and i have liked him over a year now. Im only 13 but I actually feel in love with him. On some days, he seems really interested in me and I feel like we are getting somewhere. Then the day after, he wont care.. he will want nothing to do with me. Just talks to the popular, bitchy girls. In class, we get on so well and this day to day thing has only started happening recently. Is it because im teasing him.. i do it to make him laugh? I really like him now and wanna be with him. Please help me!
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reader, Tigerlily  +, writes (25 November 2009):
sounds like teasing him isn't making him laugh. Maybe try laying off the teasing and see if he doesn't disapear as often.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 November 2009):
This is a classic case of a male who hasn't got a clue about what he wants or how you feel. Boys don't do hints, you have to be straight! If you like him, tell him. It may be that he really likes you, but you teasing him is making him confused. Talk to him and find out what he wants.
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reader, shortone1 +, writes (25 November 2009):
 I was once 13 too. i thought i was in love and what do you know i was just being used. boys don't know what they want neither do men, its hard on a girls life knowing that we care about someone and love them though they keep treating us like shit one day and then the next day they are so cool with us. I can only recommend to be your self, and don't try so hard, it only pushes them away. maybe even let him go and do your own thing i mean that your only 13 and right now would be a good time to start livin it up i don't mean to do bad things because that is not what im talking about, but i am talking about having fun maybe doing some kind of sport, hangin out with friends, spending time with family, brothers/ sisters if any. just doing things that you love like hobbies. because once you grow up like to be in high school or even graduating high school and being on your own you'll regret chasing him around, and wondering where all your time went and wished you had a nice car or cool pimped out house to live in, or even going to college. i don't know about you or what kind of household you live in now, but i do know i was brought up in poverty and got in to drugs and dated young and had sex young which wasn't the best for me and now i regret every lil thing and i wish i saved my virginity for marriage because its worth more then you think and wish i had a nice merecedes benz or even my own money to buy what i wanted.i just am telling you this because its so easy to ruin your life and make mistakes because when your young nobody tells you any differentand and you think and feel like your in love when you just have lust. no-body actually tells you how you can become rich or wealthy in life. i hoped i could help and you can talk to me any time.
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reader, gypc044 +, writes (25 November 2009):
Dear you are only 13, in your life you will boys come and go, and this one sounds like he is someone who will mess with girls heads. As he knows you like him and so he knows he can play the game of talk to her today not tomorrow, and if he is talking to the popular girls and they do not talk to you then yes he will ignore you, and this is wrong. You dont want someone like that, as then you will always be treated poorly, please you are young (and I know you dont think you are) but you will find someone that will be with you for who you are. and you will see all the fun you will have with this person no matter who is around nor what day it is. Good luck and I hope you can do this. If you have any questions do not hesitate to write.
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