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female
age
30-35,
*imisoph3
writes:i used to go out wit this guy..i called it quits cuz it just didnt go anywhere.then for a champioship in la we went in the same plane and we had fun and flirted.then when we got in california he told me that i've changed since i got to cali and i really didnt notice change in myself so i felt heartbroken that he would ever say that.then i told him i really dont like him anymore and he kept saying how i cant say no to his face and stuff so i had enough cuz his soo conseeded that i told him i'm offically moving on.he moved on faster then i did he met a girl from another country and they started going out and me trying to heal my heart started seeing some soccer players that we're in the same hotel for there championship thing too. some days he would talk to me and say hi and stuff and some days he would completly ignore me its like whenever he feels like he needs me he always comes to me and hugs me but when its not the time he ignores me.so i told him that he almost made me cry and that i was mad at him he said that i cant resist his face and like an idiot i hug him..then on monday after i came back i sent him a happy birthday text message cuz he did the same to me...friday i'm probably gonna see him and i dont want to cuz he hurts me all the timewhy does he do these stuff to me the more i pretend i'm okay the more it hurtswats up wit this guy and why is he controlling my emotions and heart like this???
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (23 July 2009):
 He knows how to push your buttons and he'll keep on pushing them. It doesn't really sound like he's playing mind games with you. It sounds like your playing mind games with yourself. Do you like this guy or not?If you don't like what he's doing, then why are you letting him? Stay away from this guy. Don't cry on his shoulder and don't let him cry on yours.If he's only coming around, when he needs someone to be there, then say I'm sorry but I can't be that someone. He doesn't want to commit, he's cocky and he thinks he's something special.Those guys can't be in relationships until they learn to get over themselves and think about someone else for a change. Cut off all contact with him. Don't be his friend - don't be his friend with benefits either and definatley don't be his girlfriend. You have to move on - it might be hard. But it will get easier. Keep smiling.
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