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writes:I've had a crush on my boyfriends sister and didn't find out that she was bisexual until I got into a relationship with her brother. She recently slept over at my house while my boyfriend was at work and we ended up getting a little too close. Do you thing I should tell him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): You have to ask yourself if you prefer to be with her or him. If you want to be w/ her more than you're just wasting your time by being w/ him in the first place. As far as being guilty about it-well you should, but it's not like this doesnt happen all the time. A Loveline call I once heard had a girl calling in, saying that her brothers girlfriend had slept with their other brother. So she goes to this girl saying how bad she felt-and they wind up getting it on! This girl slept w/ an entire generation of 1 family! So if it makes you fell any better, this is no worse than a lotta other stuff goin on. Be honest w/ yourself and him and try not to waste anyones time. Bite the bullet, dump him, and be with his sister if that's what you both want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009): you're going to tell him to achieve what exactly???
There is no point intelling him at all. If you want to end your relationship end it there is no need to damage the entire family.
If you want to stay with him tell his sister it was a mistake. Personally i think sleeping with people from the same family is a big no no regardless of the time difference between the relationships.
Move on and out of both their lives
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reader, Rachel O  +, writes (19 July 2009):
 i think its best that you tell him, be prepared for his reaction, like gRaa said he will be more annoyed that you kepted it from him for a long time, and it would be better than him catching you in the act or hearing it form someone else.
Good Luck
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reader, carriebaby +, writes (19 July 2009):
 i suggest you have a long think about this.. how do you feel about this girl? and more to the point - how do you feel about her brother...
You need to see what you want.. to be with a girl or a boy... but i do advise you to tell him before you both get to serious - as it will come out eventually.
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reader, gRaa +, writes (19 July 2009):
 tell him, the more yu wait the more he will get annoyed when you tell him
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