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female
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anonymous
writes:So me and my ex-boyfriend have been together for 11 months. In the beginning we have been doing fine and he was the most sweetest guy you cold ever be with. He would buy me flowers at random, open the car door for me, and lots of that good stuff. Well a couple weeks ago, (more like a month) he left me and said he didn't want to hurt me again and he wouod never get back with me, ever. He gave excuses like "your dad won't stop accusing me of cheating" and all that but even i have kind of suspected it. He has suddenly stopped calling me during the summer and started texting other girls from out of state. He has started to hang up on me more often and give me his unfulfilled attention, because he would be texting her while i'd be speaking to him no the phone and it hurt. Evetually he told my best friend he wanted to still be friends and so she told me after school and it broke me heart. I called him right after and he said he still loved me but wanted to be friends. Things have gone down hill from there, pretty much insulting eachother and what not. Eventually my friend tells me that he has been considering asking me out in a couple of months, but she said he told her it was confidential of why he wanted to wait so long to get back. So my question is....Wat are his intentions? Does he still love me, or is this just a game?
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reader, ggl777 +, writes (9 October 2008):
He might be confused as of what he wants. He might want to be with you but may not want a relationship since he still might want to have fun and meet other people. i think you should stop contacting him and wait until he calls or texts you. if you continue to contact him that will acctually push him away. Give him time..for now just concentrate in yourself. distract yourself, hang out with friends..try not to think of it much. If he really does care and love you he will come back..Like they say.."Let it go and if he comes back it was meant to be if not then o well.. move on and find someone that will care for you and respect you..
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