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Archived questions from: 9 April, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Pregnant! I'm only 11 and I'm a good girl really. I don't know what to do.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - hi im 11 years old i dont drink or drink achohal im a good girll but somhow im pregnant and dont no wat do???p.s my parents do not no...

I'm his first "geek" girlfriend! His exes were much cuter!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has a lot of girls in his MSN contacts. He says he doesn't talk to them anymore, that he met them a long time ago in some chatrooms, out of boredom and just added them. They all have this silly cute nicknames. So I guess they're all ...

Any advice on "snogging" a boy for the first time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Hey, well i like this boy and he likes me. we were meant to go out on 2 occasions to town or the cinema or something but both times he couldnt come because he was busy and couldnt get out of it. but we are supposed to be going out again in the hol...

Will the fact that I'm circumsized stop me from having sexual pleasure? I'm a virgin.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - hi my names mike and me and my girlfriend have decided to have sex together but she dosent know that im circumsized - does matter if i am or not and will i not stop me from having as much pleasure as men which aren't circumsized?...

I desperately need her to like me!! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - Right guys and girls i need your help. I am meeting a girl on Friday who i have for two years and i havn't seen her in a while. We're meeting up on a street corner and just going for a walk. She says that if we get on well we'll probably go out ...

I am worried about others dying....how do I overcome this fear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Not really a love prob but need advice Im 25and have a big problem with death I worry about loved ones dying a lot More then I think is normal My parents who i live with are 50 and 55 and i constantly worry about them I was even like this before the ...

What do I do when my parents give me the "sex" talk?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I am 14 and my parents still havent gave me sex talk. But when that time comes how do i tell them i know all about sex? Cause i did research on it and my sister told me? Help!...

I cheated with his best friend and regret it! How can I stop cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - okay so im 12 yrs. old and my boyfriend is about to turn 14 we've been datin off and on 4 5 yrs now!! this may be a little confusing but try to work wit me... but about a month ago i cheated on him with his best friend and my boyfriends best ...

How can I compete with his video games? I'm fed up!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - hi first off , i'm 13 and my boyfriend is 17. when i was 12 we started going out we loved each other very much. we had an argument and broke up we were together for 5 and a half months. we then got back together 2 months ago things have been...

My ex has been telling people we had sex, which is not true. How to react to the rumours?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - my ex boyfriend has been telling people we had sex. its not true. what should i do? [Moderator's note. Respondents may treat your situation as common defamation until you can provide us with complementary details. Feel free to write en détail plea...

Information on law related careers, please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Hi I've got a question for anyone who is studing Law or has any knowledge of law related careers. Is there any lessons in school I can try hard in? What GCSE grades do I need to get to be able to study law? Do I really need a maths GCSE to be able ...

Every guy I have a crush on, I seem to want to marry!... Is this immature?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I'm a bit confused because it seems like every guy I have a little crush on I seem to want to marry. I know that I'm still young, and i dunno why I want to marry them, because I don't even know the boys very well! Is it just an immature crush ...

My younger sisters (twins) are in a stage of asserting superiority and treat me nastily, how to cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I have younger twin sisters of about 12 years old (i am 15). i used to get on really well with them, but recently they have started to go through that giggly, really annoying "im better than everyone stage" and the fact there are 2 of them just ...

If you overstraighten your hair does it eventually lose its natural waviness? Assuring its healthiness throughout the process?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Hey I've just got a simple hair question.I like my hair straight but I don't want to lose the natural waviness it has. So my question is, if you overstraigten it (or over the years as you keep straigtening it) does it lose its natural waviness? And ...

Love bites - why a problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (?) - is it such a big deal to have a love bite? my boyfriend and i went away for the weekdend, friday till monday and it was amazin! we spent all our time in the swimming pool and then back in the shallet we just spent all the rest of our time just enj...

Should my friend stick with her "dirty" boyfriend or go for someone less smelly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - ok, this question isn't for me it's for a friend!! she has this boyfriend that she lives with. she says he is kinda dirty like he doesn't take showers everyday and brush his teeth and that sometimes he smells. She has been talking to these ot...

What can I do to impress the girl of my dreams when I take her to Prom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - So i am going to prom with the girl of my dreams. What can I do to impress her besides the obvious?...

She flirted with our friend. I trust her but I don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 147 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid: I'm just your average 18 year old guy i have a beautiful G/F. Well i'm goign straight to the point. You see last night my G/F and our former friend told in front of everyone (we had like 8 ppl in the chat)that she liked him...alth...

I cheated on my guy and when he says it's over he really means it. What should I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I cheated on my guy and he broke up with me and he told me before that when he says it's over he really means it. What should i do????...

Does he fancy me, or does he just think I'm easy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 149 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Right, i have been with my boyfriend about 8 months now..(let's call him Jo - to keep it secret) through him i have made alot of new friends and some very very good ones at that. A good few months ago one of these very good friends made a drun...

I realise I'm hurting this boy by being capricious. How to actually decide whether I like him or not??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I broke up with a long term boyfriend 2 months ago and since then i've met this other guy. He's so nice, he treats me like im a princess and i believe he really cares for me. The only thing is, one day i'll really like him and want to be with him...

I found out my friend is seeing other boys apart for me, how should I explain her this?? We're not committed in fact, so why does it bother me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - Lately I've had a thing with this girl, and we've been talking for a couple hours a day on the phone, we've had sex already, basically we're like friends with benefits. Anyways, I was away with work on the weekend, and I promised I'd call her on ...

I'm decided to have sex at 12. Concerned about the pain though!...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - help im 12 years old and me n my boyfriend want sex i know people say your too young and wait til your older but i can't wait til im older. we both love each other so much we cant stand being a way from each other. im not scared at all but what hap...

I'm unexperienced thus uncertain about how to ask him out or if I even should: long distance would then be a problem.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - hi i was wondering if someone could please help me. i am 18 years old and in college. i have been talking to this guy i like and i would like to ask him out. he problem is i go to school in castleton and he goes to school in burlington. we both are ...

What will people think about me when they find out I had a threesome?? I've extenuating circumstances: drink!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (?) - i have done like the stupidest thing in this world!!! i have liked this guy for ages! i mean like a really long time. and i went to a party at a mates house on sautrday night and i ended up sleeping with this guy, but also his mate! all three of us ...

He said that 'Vizen' eye-drops would cure it and I would not get pregnant?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Well the other day me and my boyfriend had sex and he was drunk, so when he ask me where i wanted him to cum, i told him my stomach, but he ask me if he could inside of me, and i said that i wasn't ready for a baby just yet. He agreed with me but i ...

10 wks pregnant after an affair with an older man who wants nothing to do with it, pleasde help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - 10 wks pregnant. Been stupidly having an affair with a man for 5 yrs who is twice my age who and is in a relationship....and also has an 11 yr old son. His partner has found out in the past about us...and the majority of the country know, and tota...

Because he didn't hold my hand, kiss or hug me on our first date, does this mean he will only ever be just a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I went on a first date with a lad from my college. I have only really known him since we started college and he told one of my friends he liked me and has said over the internet that he likes me...so we went to the cinema and talked loads on the way ...

The 17 yr old daughter of one of my friends is coming on to me quite strong..it's tempting but I need advce...please!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - Hey, I'm having real trouble getting my head around this one. I'm a 45 year old divorcee with 2 children of 22 and 19. They both live with me after my wife ran off with another man. I'm lucky that I have a close circle of friends around me with m...

I need more ideas for non-penetration sex. Any suggestions please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Can anyone tell me sexy ideas for non-penetration sex? I am dating someone for some months, we have decided not to have sex with penetration yet, so we've been doing other kind of stuff (like oral sex and mutual masturbation), but it starts to be a ...

I kissed another guy, even tho' my boyfriend said he wouldn't forgive me if I did it again. Why do I do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Oh no! What do you guyz think of my behaviour, i know i'm a jerk, damn! I really love my b/f and he keeps on telling me he wants to marry me when he's 28. We've been dating for more than a year now. About 8 months ago i kissed with his cousin at a ...

How can I become better at sex by being on top?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (?) - This sounds silly, but how can i become better at sex when i'm on top? I really have no idea what im doing, and im scared im hurting him! "Going with the flow" just doesnt seem to be working, and i always feel guilty because he's always on top. He ...

Two failed relations: how do I get over these boys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - hi i got probs handling girl boy relationship.i went on with this guy for 1 week.he treats me very well till the fourth day of our relationship.he started to avoid me..he didnt reply to my messages.i also didnt bother about him.i tried to ignore him ...

I want our relationship to work but it's just the thought of her going to clubs that has overtaken me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - Hi I was with my girlfriend for a year and a half before, we split up and found different partners for about 4 months, you got back together and its been about 5 months now. I feel our relationship is collapsing and I can see it, well it is all ...

Developing Relationship: How do I make the next step?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - So I told this girl that I'm interested in that I had feelings for her after spending the night cuddling together in bed for the first time. For some reason, the next morning I didn't kiss her. She made a move to, but I felt it was too ...

I'm told I'm "too nice"....so not boyfriend material! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - Hi, My problem, or I believe it is a problem, is that I'm being told by potential girlfriends or girlfriends that I'm too nice!!!! Therefore, I'm "friends material." It's happened a lot over my life and well, what do I do??? I am me, and how c...

Do guys compliment girls on their name? What is a beautiful name?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - This is something I've been thinking about for a while. Why do guys compliment girls on their names? Do you really hear a girl's name and think "wow that is a beautiful name?". Maybe I'm being a little silly, I just think it's a weird thing to compl...

I need to feel safe in a relationship so I need help on this!! PLEASE...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - how to even ask, okay here goes well im engaged underage and in love with my boyfriend on the side which is more than my long distant fiance. im 17 years old my fiance is 21 which knows im 17 then my boyfriend is 35 and thinks im 20 i...

Why wont my penis stay hard after penetration? Should I see a doctor?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - Okay here is the deal. I am 17 going on 18 pretty soon. I've been in love with my girlfriend for a year or so now. I play basketball and workout. But my problem is when i masturbate and then stop, i can feel it going down more and more after about 3 ...

There's a sexual connection between us, but I feel not enough of an emotional one.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year and a half. We've been through a lot but we seem to have worked things out. The sex is amazing...we have a great time but I feel like he can't give me enough emotionally. He tells me he loves me, ...

How can I make her mine again??? I really want her back.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - I'm in a lose-lose situation and desperately need help A couple of months ago my ex-girlfriend broke up with me for another guy. We had been having some troubles, and now that i look back i realize what these problems were...I never truly show...

I need help planning my 16th birday!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - My sweet 16s coming up on the 21st.... need help planning... I have 2 groups of friends I hang out with, should I have 2 parties or combine both? I wanna have 2 cuz it'll be better, they're kinda different and such. What should I do ? Oh, and I...