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Archived questions from: 13 April, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

How can I get us back in a relationship again? He says he doesn't want to get hurt, so we are not "officially" together.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - Me and this guy have been seeing each other over the past year. We break up, then get back together.. and so on. We both love each other, and I dont know if its just me but I realy have the feeling we were made for each other. Yeah sounds stupid, ...

Pain in my testicles after I see my girlfriend, is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

13 April 2008 (M) - hey, i was just wondering, after I see my girlfriend, even if we do nothing sexual, my balls nearly always ache after. It is really inconvienient, and I was wondering is this normal? I'm worried. Thanks...

Guys call me fat - this makes other guys unwilling to make a move.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - Guys have mixed opinions on me... I am not fat(as far as i'm concerned!) i'm size 14,but some guys often call me fat. Most of them don't,i'm CURVY.LITTERALY ..But the few guys that call me fat make it hard for the guys who tell me they like me to ...

Does his friends shouting show that he's been talking about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 145 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - I asked him out about 9 months ago...... I know for a fact that he liked me otherwise I wouldn't have. He said maybe and 2 days later said not now maybe after the exams thanx for asking. After the summer he was watching me all the time and we spoke ...

I am not pleased with my appereance, what can I change to look better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - hey, this a pretty selfish Question,.. but i have no confidence in myself at all.. i am not the prettiest of gurls, like ata ll. ima size 10/12 and like on a scale of 1 - 10, 10 bein the highest , im about a 3 on scale of looks. and that aint me ...

If he accepts to go together to the cinema, does he implicitly accept to be my BF???...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - I was wondering...If you ask a guy out to the movies and he's 13,will he then(once he's said yes) accept you as a gf. Because i could pluck up the courage to try it,but he might not think of me as his gf and simply GET ANOTHER GF. Are guys rea...

Planning to tell him I like him so that he understands why I am avoiding him... my teacher...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - well I like my teacher a lot and im deciding whether I should tell him or not. I'm thinking telling him is the only way I'm going to stop liking him because its going to get rid of all the what if's going on in my head and I know it might make ...

My friend is going to ask the boy I like to go out with me, I'm so nervous about this situation!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

13 April 2008 (?) - Hey !! I need some advice . My very good close friend is going to ask the guy I like to go out with me and I'm totally nervous and scared .... he's showed signs that he liked me but I'm still not sure .... she thinks that he does but ...IDK .... ...

He has a GF but says he only goes out with her because he feels sorry for her!! Should I be getting involved with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 April 2008 (?) - well theres this guy who i had a crush on months ago. i liked him loads! and i was mad on him but now i dont seem as interested in him as i used to be and have got over him. but i was in ICT the other day and the power went so we were all just sat ...

For the past two years I've been feeling emotionally unstable, numb... I want to feel better.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 146 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - well for the past two years or so i haven't been able to feel the emotions im supposed to. i know what im supposed to feel cos its there in my head but i cant feel it in my body and heart. for example last night i was sad and crying a lot but...

Should I stay with him in these conditions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - ok. my boyfriend and i have been dating on and off for four years. we use to agure alot. then when i moved to indianapaolis he started telling me to never talk to him again. he hated me. then when he found out that i might have been pregnan...

Our relation is purely sexual and... in secrecy. I love him and don't want us to hide any longer, what to tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - I like this guy right, but whenever he want to hang out it's when nobody is around or just to have sex and let it be confidential. I want our relationship to be out in the open, and I feel like he is hiding me from his friends. But, i reallly LOVE ...

We broke up because he slept with my sister, but I want him back!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

13 April 2008 (?) - i really need some help, i dont know what to do about the situation im in.. ive being goin out with my boyfriend for over a year now, (16 months) and i adore him! but last night i found out that he has slept with my 13 year old sister!!!!!!! he is ...

Family and boyfriend problems are driving me to drink..how can I cope better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - hey i dont know where to start with all this well my mum and younger brother are moving to spain next year theyve decided and my mum told me that i was to stay here and keep this house incase it all went worng . I know she doesnt love me and neve...

It used to be guys crushing on me, now I am struck dumb with first ever crush of my own!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - well i am a really confused teen...ever since high school i have been dtaing like the hottest guys ever,everyone used to try and make up converations with me,want to hang out with me..if i ever liked a guy i used to get him in know time..this is the ...

Advice please about females with hair on their backs and bums?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - okay this is like really akward and embarrasing but oh well is it normal 4 girls to have hair on their lower back and on/in their butt?? like does it turn guys off? please help/answer me it really bugs me!!...

And useful advice on overcoming shyness around girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

13 April 2008 (M) - when im round girls im very shy and try to avoid them as i dont know what to do and what to say any advice p;lease help ...

First date advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

13 April 2008 (M) - i relly like this girl and want to ask her out on a date. But i'm scared thing's will get arkward at parts, as we've never been totally close, just distant friends. What kind of conversations do you have? And what's off limits for a first date? how ...

What position is best to make love for the first time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - Hey guys, i would like to know what position is best to make love for the first time. My boyfriend and i are both virgins, i know to have loads of foreplay and to take things slowly because of the pain that may or may not be present. But what are ...

My new guy is amazing but I think about my ex (who led me on) a lot...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - well...bascially I was dating this guy for about 9 months, and it was perfect. I was happy, and head of heels in love. Then, we suddenly started arguin, about the 'future', going to different univerities, he asked for a break, and i couldnt...

12 and thinking to hide my relation from my parents in case they don't approve, any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - hi guys um i am 11 nearly 12 and i have asked this guy to be my boyfriend.he has sorta said yes and i really like him.i am glad we can have a just at school thing and at home but privately but i cant tell my parents incase they dont approve....

Took the morning after pill, any chance of pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - i was due for my period around april 8th i took a pregnancy test on the ninth to see if that was the cause of me not getting it. sure enough it came back negative, but later that night we had sex ( WITH A CONDOM) of course it broke not even within ...

So confused over the only lad I've ever loved. Does he have feelings for me or hate me like the rest of them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - hey ok i'm not even sure what i'm asking here but to give you the full picture i'm affriad this will be quite long even thought i will try to keep it brief. Right theres a guy in my class who i seriously like. Although we didn't speak loads we used ...

Sometimes I feel he doesn't respect me because he ignores me to talk to his friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - i met a guy through common friends and we got together 2 weeks ago.we don't know each other very well,but i have fun when i am with him.problem is that he is sometimes very nice with me and sometimes i feel he doesn't respect me because he ignores ...

Involved in a relation with a teenager; when I realised it was wrong, he blackmailed to carry on with our relation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - After my marriage failed i was in a bad place emotionally and ended up allowing an affair to start with someone 15yrs younger than me and only 15 himself. When ppl started finding out about it realisation hit me and it felt wrong and i knew i had ...

Problems with curly hair...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - Hey, this doesn't really have anything to do with love... directly... but my hair is naturally very curly, and sometimes it looks really nice but other times its awful, and i hate the unpredictability of it, so can anyone suggest a way to manage it ...

A boy interferes in my private affairs and has approached me inappropriately. What can I do to avoid him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm a 14 year old female living in the UK, I go to secondary school and a few months ago we asked the teachers whether were allowed to have some sort of prom, the teachers agreed after some discussions. The prom was like for raising money for ...

My mother let my BF live and sleep with me since I was 14, two years later I am pregnant. How to tell her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - how do i tell my mom i am prego at 16, should she already see this coming since my boyfriend lives with us and my boyfriend sleeps with me, does she want me to have a baby since she let him live with me since i was 14...

I'm jealous because the boy I like enjoys the company of a girl who shares his interest - playing the guitar...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - hello. i just found this site and i'm excited to see the answers... theres this boy at my university i get along with... my friends think we have this connection and says he really likes me. i didn't see it at all. after they told me i sort of not...

I have to be whipped and shed blood for my country to consider me a "woman". I'm scared!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - In my country a girl must be whipped and shed blood for there to be a good harvest. If we flinch we dissapoint our clan. We then also aren't considered women... just girls. If I succeed I get a husbund. But I'm scared. Do you have advice?...

My father will forbid me from seeing my boyfriend, should I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend...we've been together for 1 month, last week i asked my father whether i could have boyfriend or not, he told me that it was my decision. I'm 15 and my b/f is 17. The problem is that now my dad told me that he had been said tha...

She's defending the guy that sexually assaulted her whilst she was drunk?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

13 April 2008 (M) - Hey guys, Well i have a wonderful girlfriend that is most definately the best thing that has ever happened to me! This much i promise.....but i have a problem...... I have come on this site and asked a couple times about what to do when dealing wit...

I'm in love with him, but I have future plans that he can't be involved with.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - I'm dating a 25 year old man and i'm 17. I am in love with him, but secretly i don't want to be with him forever, because i have future plans that he can't be in. He has a beautiful daughter who I love and see as my own, and i truly don't want to h...

What do you think of my note of apology to my crush that I unsulted last week?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - I'm now in a very awkard siuation because I think I offended my crush by accident. I should apologize, but how? Here's what I wrote in my apology note: "Hey, I'm really sorry if I offended you last friday. You have every right to be mad at me....

My boyfriend's mum saw me going in to the cinema with a male friend, (it was innocent) and has since made my life hell.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - I am 16 and have moved out of my home due to a few problems with my mum a few months ago. I have been currently living with my boyfriend and his mum. I have stared college and made a new friend. However i met her boyfriend at a party and we kissed ...

Is it alright to tell a girl that she is beautiful on your first date?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

13 April 2008 (M) - Is it alright to tell a girl that she is beautiful on your first date? I'm going on a date with this amazing girl who makes me laugh, i make her laugh and she's easy to talk to, and of course she's beautiful. Do you think if i tell her she's bea...

I need money to help fund my tuition, but no one will employ me, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - I am 17 and i'm a senior in highschool. I'm supposed to be going to college in September but I don't know how i'm gonna pay for things. Financial aid won't give me every penny I need. I've been trying to get a job since October of '07. I only had ...

If I waited longer would I have gotten her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

13 April 2008 (M) - Thank you for even opening this thread .. I'm only a 16yr old male and this is the first time i've been this heart broken, I don't know if this applies to you but have you ever waited for someone you love soo much and in the end ...they slowl...

I have lost the confidence I need for a healthy relationship. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - I have experienced a traumatic relationship. I was assaulted by the guy I once loved. I fell into depression for a very long time. I have even transferred to another university to avoid him. I have obsessively fallen for my teacher since la...