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writes: I really fancy this guy but he is with someone else. I know they are not happy because I hang around with the same group of friends as them. They always argue and she is horrible to him. He can't do anything right. I know he likes me too because he is always trying to make eye contact with me. He flirts with me when she is not around and when he smiles at me I know that his smile says so much more (if you know what I mean). I really like this guy. I would never even consider breaking them up if I knew that they were happy and that she treated him well, but it hurts me to see her treating him the way she does because I know that I could treat him better. Should I make the move on him or should I leave it? Please help
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (23 September 2005):
 The rule of the thumb is that you should never ever consider a guy so as long as he still has a gf. If he wants you, he'll have to leave her before to be with you. You should not partake in any of the flirting games with him now. Its wrong and theres no other explanation for that!! And also, if he liked you as much as u thinks he does, why is he still with her? You'd probably say hes afraid to leave her. Id say thats rubbish. You can never ever make a guy stay with a girl if he doesnt want to.
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reader, wishes +, writes (23 September 2005):
 Id say leave it. Hes a big boy and if he wanted to leave her, he would have. Its amazing what onlookers can think of a relationship when the people in it can be so happy. Don't help him become a cheater. By all means, if he decides to leave her then step right up, but don't put both yours and his names in the dirt. Best Wishes.x
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reader, wicky +, writes (22 September 2005):
You not breaking a couple up if you are developing a caring friendship. If he likes you, he likes you. Let him know you want him but subtly. Ask him out for a drink, just you two. Take it from there; if he wants to be with you, then he will!
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