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writes: There's this girl whom I like and I know she likes me. I'm too shy to ask her out. Do you know any tips that might give her a hint without directly talking about it. Thanks a lot.
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reader, Spidersleader1 +, writes (21 September 2005):
Dude, I know how you feel, I've been down that road hundreds of times. Yeah eye contact is good, but so is normal convo. Talk with her, get confident around her. Talk until you feel like you can tell her anything, besides that's a great way to start of a relationship. If you want to get things going quickly then write her a note asking her out or you can just go up and ask her without thinking about it. Don't stand in front of the mirror and talk to yourself, that just gets you nervous. One day when you see her at school or something just walk up and ask, in front of her friends or not. With her friends there then you can feel a little more confident. A word of advice though; don't keep her waiting too long cause chances are she'll give up and you don't want that.
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reader, Dodgy Rog +, writes (20 September 2005):
Eye contact is good! Imagine her as that ugly girl that likes you! you know the one. Flirt with her. Be yourself (NO wait a minute! that's a bit cliche!) don't try too hard. After all she's only a girl! Don't let it go on too far that you end up seeming like a stalker (There's a fine line between loving and loitering!)
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reader, helpfull girl +, writes (20 September 2005):
well you could spend more time with her than all your other friends/ ask her to come over and watch a movie with you one night/write her secret letters,cards send secret flowers keep her geussing each card you send put a letter that is in your name muddel up a bit like 1 day if your names brett send a card with a e on then send another card next time with a b on then adventually it will spell out your name./ flirt like every time you see her give her a hug dont give your other friends a hug/buy her little gifts. or you could just always walk straight up to her and say i like you and i hope you feel the same way, send a text or a phone call if you have to thats the quickest way of telling her.
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