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What can I do about unwanted erections?

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Question - (12 September 2005) 12 Answers - (Newest, 26 June 2010)
A male , anonymous writes:

I get erections all the time and it gets bothersome when we are just hugging.

What can I do to calm things down?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2010):

ha ha i'm pretty sure EVERY guy has had this problem.. and so i wrote an article to help them with it : P

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/5525062/how_to_stop_an_erection_four_surefire.html?cat=5

i hope it can help you out, i included multiple ways to stop an erection quickly, and subsequently avoid some very awkward social situations

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008):

wear jeans n undies, not boxers.. thats the trick to hide the visual aspects.. for the actual touching part, thats tricky and pretty hard to hide... you could invert ur hips a bt so it doesnt bump her...

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thats you

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2007):

this always work for me:

For standing up:

Pull your thing up (if your not being seen) so your thing is stuck between your boxers' elastic strap and your stomach (so your dick's facing up). This way, blood flow will do down, as will your "driftwood" Note: make sure that if you do this the bottom of your shirt is covering this (the tip of your dick could be showing).

For sitting down:

1. regardless of the bagginess of the jeans, this always works for me too (and i wear hella tight jeans). Spread your legs a little, and have your wood going along side your leg. You'll notice that the wood blends right into the grooves of the jeans. I use this method all the time at school, I always have, and no one has NEVER noticed.

Glad I could help,

-Z

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2007):

I totally disagree with what Susu wrote cause your dick and your feelings are two VERY different things...

Telling your girl what you feel doesnt mean that you should show her your dick!

kisses and good luck!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2007):

hey

so what is this is going down or up lol

but if u want 2 stop i use tight underwear like clavin k's

hope its a help

(14)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2007):

hey, i know it can be akward and i am going through the same thing, i always have to bend over a bit so it doesn't hit her leg or something and i have to like turn around and hide and pretend i'm doing something while i wait for it to go away, stupid teresterone huh? i'm 17 and my girlfriend is 15 so i dunno what she'll think but just give it time and things will work out. she should understand. especially if she is your girlfriend. she shouldn't be your girlfriend if she thinks badly of you being a normal teenage boy with teresterone going nuts.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2006):

Hey dude, I know what your going through. Some things I do to hide my bulge are these:

1. I wear loose fitting jeans. I don't know about you but when I used to wear tight jeans, man I'd get a woody all the time.

2. Masterbate when you can. I masturbate like 5 times a day and it has reduced my unwanted erections by 85% !

3. Wear loose bathing suits and baggy jeans around your girl. Like this she'd have to cop a feel to know if I was hard. With baggy jeans know one but yourself will know you are hard.

4. Take a cold shower or if your at the beach jump into the water, Your boy will be down in seconds. and finally,

think of big hairy bikers! I don't know man but it gets my dick down in no time!

Good luck man!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2005):

what about when its not a girl friend but just a friend, make things kind of awkward, and very embarrasing. I dont no of any solution to the problem. Kinda problematic, i cant say i agree with people who just say, ignore it. Maybe with a girlfrien but not just anyone.

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A male reader, Loooooooove Miester +, writes (15 September 2005):

Dont worry about it it is completely natural. If it is bothering you that much you should try to think about something else while you are hugging.

Yours

The Loooooooove miester

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2005):

Hey man im in the the same boat your in (age18. Trust me its not a problem if you dont let it be. My girl always makes fun of me for it but i rermind her if i was'nt so atracted to her it would'nt happen. This not only defuses the situation but compliments her at the same time...so i say let your flag fly and be proud cuz one day you might be looking at ED comercials and have a good chukle about it.

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A male reader, harshbutfair United Kingdom +, writes (13 September 2005):

harshbutfair agony auntSounds like you're pretty young kidda. Just enjoy it while you can this stage in your life will pass. Maybe it's not such a bad thing to be getting erections at the drop-of-a-hat anyway!

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A female reader, susu  +, writes (13 September 2005):

whats so bothersome about that if i was your girfriend i would be happy to know that you enjoyed being with me, why the hell hide your felings?

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