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I lied to her online about my life, my looks! I really love her, so what can I do about this?

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Question - (24 February 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2012)
A male age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hello! I really don't know what to do. At the beginning it was all like a joke, I didn't use to have a serious relationship 'online'. So I've said why should I say the truth, I will say only lies. That's when I've found this girl that is everything for me. I've fallen in love with her so much that I can't see my life without her. But then, I remember that I lied her about many things like my age, my look and even my life. She's with 2 years older than me, but she knows I have her age. I've used my brother photos, albums and life experience instead of mines. Anyways, I really love this girl and I can't live without her. Even if those were some lies, everything I talked with her and all my heart is true and came from my heart. What do you recommend me to do?

P.S: don't tell me I'm a jerk, asshole, jackass, moron and liar because I already know I am and I regret now that I lied because I know she would have loved me for real me and not for those lies, but it's too late and she will probably get mad

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (24 February 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntWell dear now you have to face the music.

You don't really love her you know... you love the idea you've built up of her. You love what she's presented to you as her truth! For all you know she's not who she says she is either... maybe she lied... maybe she's really a 50 year old fat guy in his underwear having some fun with you...

Is there any chance you two will be meeting IRL? IF so you must come clean ASAP.... if not maybe just break it off with her and learn from your mistakes.

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