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After 5 years and many hardships, she leaves. What's the best thing to do next?

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Question - (23 June 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 June 2009)
A male United States age 51-59, *ubedude writes:

So after 5 years and many hardships when things go south and she leaves and says theres no changing her mind, you knowing you have said some mean stuff and acted in mean ways whats the best thing to do after shes gone and you desperately want another chance?

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A male reader, lubedude United States +, writes (26 June 2009):

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lubedude agony auntThanks for your opinions...it sucks hearing some of them, but thats what I need so my mind dont wander! She has went back to Conneticut as of now with her family...I probably wont have any shot of her coming back home now!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2009):

It sounds like she has given you lots of chances already and you haven't changed. Leave her space and try to sort out your own problems before you either go back to her (if that's possible) or find someone else. Otherwise it will just keep happening.

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A female reader, ilovebowsandcherries United Kingdom +, writes (23 June 2009):

ilovebowsandcherries agony auntthe best thing you can do is leave her alone.

give her time and space to herself, let her think on things. but i mean after 5 years and she's left maybe it's not meant to be?

just give her time and space to herself for now she'll come back when she is good and ready to chat.

Hope this helps :)

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