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*eelam33
writes:hi i have been in a relationship for 7 years. my boyfriend broke up with me last year october because he couldn't marry me beacuse of religion. anyway he is with someone else now. since he has been with her they break up and make up beacuse they fight abt me, his patner does not like me beacuse she know he still loves me. anyway we have been talking and seeing each other. i am so confused beacuse i cant understand why he keeps telling me that he hasnt slept with her and how he really missing me and loves me. only abt 4 weeks ago he sent me an email to stop calling him and he said that seven years are over now move on, cant understand how he can say that to me only three weeks ago he was telling me that he still loves me. please can someone help me. I just want to know if he had moved on and loves his new girlfriend.thank you.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (1 July 2009):
 He may want you to stick around after he's married but why would you settle for that? Like I said before there really is no future with this guy. Try to stay busy and move on.
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reader, neelam33 +, writes (1 July 2009):
neelam33 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi i just want to know that if he has now moved on, and doesnt care abt me anymore just cant understand my ex use to cry when we use to have a argument and i would say to him that i will be leaving him. he really loved me more that i ever did, just really cant understand why he sent that email.when his girlfriend swa me in october she said to me that she doesnt mind having a marrige of convience, and then in march she said she doesnt mind sharing, i said no to both of then, she also sent me a mail saying that i cant see him giving you up after marrage. i keep thinking thta he sent that mail to prove to her that its all over now. keeps on playing on my mind, he told me that hes gone marry her because she will do and keep parents happy, do you think their marrage will work? and what does he want from me, or hes not gone bother with me anymore. please advice. thank you.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (30 June 2009):
I really doesn't matter WHY he called you that many times, there is no future here. It's unfortunate that you work right across the street from him but you must try to put all this behind you now. It will get easier for you, keep your chin up.
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reader, neelam33 +, writes (30 June 2009):
neelam33 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i have cut all ties with him now, but last week my friend accidently called his number from my phone, and he called me abt 12 times that day and then the next day abt 5 times but i didnt answer it, i was just a bit confused that he said on the email that he sent me seven years are over move on so why did he call me that many times.
we both work across the road from each other, so i bump in to him after that email he sent me i dont give him any eye contact, dont think he gives me any to.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (29 June 2009):
He's stringing you along, maybe for a new role as the bit on the side. You know he won't marry you so why waste another precious second on the guy? Cut all communication with him and move on with your life.
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