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Should I leave her be, or remind her of our times together?

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Question - (18 June 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 June 2009)
A male United States age 51-59, *ubedude writes:

So yesterday I wrote of my five years coming to a end with a girl I did wrong in ways but she walked out of my life the night before and so I got my first full 24 hours alone! SUCKED SUCKED...So what do I do try and contact her? it angers me when I'm ignored so I keep trying! then I feel like a stalker...eeeeccck!Do I just let her be and hope that time apart makes her miss me or do I remind her of many times together so she stops thinking of just bad times?

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (18 June 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntIf reminding her of the times you had together means you become the person she fell in love with again, well it won't hurt, but I agree with StudentofLife if you are going to remind her in any other way, it will only make her realise how much you have changed.

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A male reader, StudentOfLife Canada +, writes (18 June 2009):

StudentOfLife agony auntWhen someone leave a relationship, it's because it's not what he/she wants out of it. She's not happy, that's why she left. Reminding her of good time would be like saying "Remember? You used to be happy?" it would only make her realize how things change since.

If Reminding her, or leaving her alone, are your 2 options. Leave her alone.

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