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How should I break up with a guy that is obsessed and emotionally attached to me?

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Question - (29 June 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 July 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, *oodcharlotte4life writes:

okay...i'm 14 and my boyfriend is fixing to be 16. we started dating may 6th and have been dating for a while now. he was in miami for a good month and i couldnt take not seeing him...i cheated a few times but he doesnt know about it...

the truth is i have kinda been leading him on for a while and i dont really love him like he loves me..

he is obbsessed and emotionaly attached to me and really clingy. i pretend to love him and i everytime he tells me he is inlove with me i lie and say it back because i already messed up and said it before... i thought maybe i would fall for him but i cant...he's not my type anymore...it could be his looks because he is not that attractive to me anymore. he's a virgin and so am i and he hasnt did anything with a girl and he is willing to with me! and i want to break up with him and i dont want me to be his first if im only going to hurt him. i gave him a handjob once that i regret but i never told him i regreted it. i was a complete B*tch to him for a while and made him upset and cry. :( he is willing to do anything for me...one time i told him to make out with a guy and he was willing to do that and hes straight! he said he just wanted to make me happy. he was suppose to stay the whole summer in miami with his dad but he came home just for me because i was tired of having a long distant relationship. now he comes over to my house every now or then but i try to make excuses to where i dont have to see him...we go to the same school now and school starts back really soon and i dont know how i am going to break up with him, he is a really sweet guy and i know letting him go will be stupid of me but i really like the badder boys...i dont know why. maybe its because i'm young. he thinks we are going to get married one day! i feel really bad and i wished i had never tooken his heart because i dont want it. and i dont deserve it.

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A female reader, goodcharlotte4life United States +, writes (13 July 2009):

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goodcharlotte4life agony auntokay,...nevermind....his parents decided to stay. so i still need some advice. (:

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A female reader, goodcharlotte4life United States +, writes (29 June 2009):

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goodcharlotte4life agony auntits kinda ironic but after i wrote this i went to read my texts and he texted me saying he had to move back to south america. wow...i was going to be good friends after we broke up but i cant now...

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