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female
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anonymous
writes:i have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. im almost 20 and hes 23. we have a very loving relationship, care about each other greatly, love spending time together and can always make each other giggle.however i think im the kind of person who always wants too much. when i read back to the things he used to text me when we first got together i realise how amazing it used to make me feel, the things he said were so lovely. he still does make me feel very special, occasional lovely texts, flowers, taking me out etc, but i feel like now he has me he doesnt make as much of an effort anymore... i know he loves me, and the stuff at the start of the relationship always fades when you feel more comfortable with each other, but how do i make it feel fresh again? any ideas? btw before i hear comments such as "spice up your sex life" we do have an amazing sex life, i just miss the way he wants me to fall for him etc. thanks x
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reader, Samiie +, writes (24 February 2009):
aww babe, im in extaclly the same percition lol xi was reading back at my texts from when we first got togever and it was so sweet and its the person i fell in love with but now its not like that and you do really miss it dont you :(then we start aguring coz i want it more so i say it feels like you dont love me and all that its not good..i dont really think there is a fresh start inless you take a break but not a good idea if you both love each other so much. i would try and make a bigger effort with him send him lovely texts , remind him how much he means to you and at the end of the day its about the love you have not the texts you get and how many flowers :) even tho we all love it and men seem to only do it at the start to dragg you in then it seems to go and it seems they dont care when they really do so just remeber he loves you and thats all that counts :D xxx
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