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How do I know if I'm marrying him for love, or for the kids?

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Question - (21 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 February 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

How can i tell if i'm marrying this man for love..Or for the kids?I think i love him..But he always gives me a reason not to trust him..He has been unfaithful atlease 2 times that i know about..I have two boys with this man.I think alot has to do with trust.

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A female reader, Kimberle United States +, writes (21 February 2009):

If you do not have 100% trust in ur relationship, it is doomed from the start!! And in the long run you will only hurt your chilren. If you have to ask yourself this question seems to me you dont want to marry him!! If you dont trust him and along down the road you suspect he's cheating your either going to fight all the time about or drive yourself insane trying to deal with it. All the while your children will be raised in this enviroment. Put yourself and them first..do what is best for you and your boys.

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