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writes:I am a women over 40 and been dating a guy for 6 yrs. now. If u size it up may be considered 3 yrs.total because of the long distance. I am I feel totally depressed all the time with this relationship. I think he is a BAD HABIT like being addicted to a major drug? He has lied, cheated, downed me, talks about me from time to time from what i hear. He keeps telling me he loves me and could never live without me? I try to get away from him, but then i get suck back up? I would love to know how to help myself. I was married for 10 yrs. divorced in 1999 so I have been there done it all. Now this? I have tried going to a psychologist, but i seem to refuse to change my way of always running back to him? Please help...Thank you
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reader, SoftlyCaress  +, writes (16 February 2009):
 I know what you mean have found myself in that position also .But you have to do what is best for you if you arent happy and the relationship depresses you then it isnt worth your mental health or physical health. It is hard but you have go to let go .Lots of times taking the first step is the hardest thing to do but you will see once you take the first step all will come easier .....
GOOD LUCK XXXX
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reader, nikki485 +, writes (16 February 2009):
You need to move on. If you can't, try actually moving. Change your phone number, something to stop the communication.
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reader, nikki485 +, writes (16 February 2009):
You need to move on. If you can't, try actually moving. Change your phone number, something to stop the communication.
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